Why I Love Living a Simple Life: 5 Ways It Changed Me for the Better

I’ve always been someone who appreciates the simple things in life, so it’s no surprise that I prefer a simple lifestyle over chasing constant busyness or material possessions. To me, living a simple life means focusing on what truly matters, like spending time with people I care about, doing things that make me happy, and taking care of myself.

Let’s face it—society constantly pressures us to do more and have more to be happy. But I believe that by simplifying our lives, we can actually experience greater joy, contentment, and fulfilment.

Of course, simplicity looks different for everyone. For me, it’s about finding balance and prioritising the things that bring genuine happiness. By doing so, I’ve found a sense of peace that I wouldn’t trade for anything.

So, why do I like living a simple life? Here are my top five reasons:

1. It’s a Game-Changer for My Finances

I come from a modest background and have always been mindful of my finances, so I understand the struggles of making a living. That’s why I’m cautious about how I spend my money. I avoid unnecessary expenses and focus on what I truly need rather than what I want.

This doesn’t mean I deprive myself, but rather that I’m mindful of my spending habits. Thanks to this approach, I’ve been able to save money for things that truly matter—helping those in need, paying off debts, saving for emergencies, and even treating myself occasionally.

Sometimes, I see others with luxury cars, designer clothes, or expensive handbags, and a small part of me might think, “I wish I had that too.” But then, I remind myself that I don’t need those things to be happy. I feel good knowing that I live within my means rather than pretending to afford a lifestyle just to impress others. Plus, I always remind myself that many people have far less, which makes me appreciate my life even more.

2. It Makes Me Appreciate the Little Things

I must say, living a simple life has truly helped me appreciate what I already have. Instead of always wanting more, I’ve learnt to be grateful for what I have. It’s not just about things; it’s about how I treat people too. When I’m committed to someone, I don’t allow myself to look for perfection in someone else. He’ll be the best in my eyes, and no one can compete with that. I don’t train myself to always desire more from others.

I really find joy in the little things, like sipping on a delicious cup of salted caramel latte while reading poetry, watching a gorgeous sunset, spending time with my cat, or just chatting with someone I like. When I focus on being thankful for what I have, I feel more content and happy. Life just seems better that way, you know?

3. It Allows Me to Be More Present in the Moment

When I’m not constantly stressing about what’s coming next or getting all worked up about the future, I can actually stop and smell the roses—what I mean is, I’m able to fully enjoy and appreciate the present moment and savour the little moments that bring me joy, such as going for a relaxing walk, listening to my favourite music, or spending time with my best friend. Also, spending time with a best friend or someone I care about can be a fulfilling and rewarding experience. When I am fully present, I can engage in meaningful conversations and create lasting memories.

Being in the moment makes me feel very calm and in control, which in the long run makes me much more productive. It’s like a domino effect—when I’m fully engaged in the moment, everything else in my life falls into place more naturally.

4. It Gives Me Peace and Contentment

Do you know what’s cool? Not being stuck in this never-ending cycle of always wanting more and trying to keep up with everyone else. When I don’t spend too much time comparing myself to other people, I feel so much happier and at ease with my life. I finally feel like I can breathe and enjoy all the good things around me.

I mean, have you ever just stopped for a second and looked around? There’s so much beauty in the world, and when I’m not too busy trying to get ahead or impress others, I’m able to appreciate it all so much more.

Living a simple life has taught me that it’s not about having the most things or being the most successful. It’s about finding joy in the small things and being content with what you have. And let me tell you, it feels so damn good.

5. I Can Focus on What Truly Matters

For me, simplicity means focusing on what’s important and letting go of distractions. It means saying “no” to things that don’t align with my values and “yes” to things that do.

I don’t waste time or energy on things that don’t bring me joy. Instead, I prioritise:

✔ Spending time with my loved ones
✔ Pursuing hobbies I’m passionate about
✔ Taking care of myself

This approach allows me to prioritise meaningful relationships over material possessions or a packed social calendar. Instead of feeling obligated to attend every event or buy expensive gifts, I focus on quality time—whether it’s sharing meals, taking walks, or enjoying shared hobbies.

By doing this, I feel more centered, grounded, and fulfilled. I know that my time and energy are going toward things that truly matter, giving me a sense of purpose and direction in life.

Final Thoughts: Why Simple Living Works for Me

These are my top five reasons for embracing a simple life, but I also know that it’s not for everyone. That’s okay! However, for me, choosing simplicity has brought immense happiness and fulfilment.

By prioritising what matters, reducing stress, and embracing minimalism, I’ve been able to improve my finances, create more free time, and find joy in life’s smallest moments.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of modern life, maybe it’s time to simplify things and focus on what truly makes you happy.

X, Hani. ❤