If you’ve been following my blog for a while, you’ve probably noticed something—I don’t stick to just one topic. And you know what? I love it that way. My blog…
The other day, I was having coffee with a friend when she said something that really stuck with me: "I don’t treat people the same way. I treat them based…
There was a time when I kept my pain locked away in the pages of my journal. Every betrayal, every cruel word, every wound—I buried them deep, afraid of what…
Let’s be real: relationships can be incredibly rewarding but also incredibly challenging. As someone who has been through her fair share of relationship ups and downs, I’ve learned a lot—sometimes…
Closure often feels like an elusive concept, something we long for but don’t always get, no matter how much we wish for it. It’s difficult to accept, but if we…
We all have our little quirks—those unique things that make us who we are. Some are endearing, some are downright weird, and some make people question our life choices. But…
Friendships are one of life’s greatest treasures, but not everyone we meet is meant to be part of our journey. Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of protecting my…
I must admit, I’ve avoided writing this kind of post for a while. It’s never easy to reopen old wounds, to look back at the moments that broke me, and…
As someone who has always been interested in healthy eating and sustainability, I’ve been curious about trying a vegan lifestyle. So, for the past seven days, I took the plunge…
I've always been someone who appreciates the simple things in life, so it's no surprise that I prefer a simple lifestyle over chasing constant busyness or material possessions. To me,…
Two days ago, my brother’s father-in-law was in critical condition after a road accident. When the doctor told our family there was nothing more they could do, we clung to…
Have you ever noticed how basic discipline seems to be fading away these days? With constant digital distractions and fewer boundaries in our daily lives, maintaining discipline has become increasingly…
Ever had a conversation that left you doubting yourself? Or a friendship that constantly made you feel guilty, even when you did nothing wrong? Maybe you've dealt with someone who…
I last used Tinder about two years ago, and I had over 2,000 matches. Yes, you read that correctly: 2,000! It's safe to say that I was pretty active on…
This past week has been nothing short of insane. Being someone who likes to write, I’m always chasing inspiration. This time, it felt like I spent an unusually long stretch…
Life is a rollercoaster of experiences—some lift us up, while others humble us in ways we never expected. The hardest lessons often shape us the most, influencing how we see…
Since childhood, I’ve suffered from nightmare disorder and sleep paralysis. It sounds wild, but at this point, I’ve gotten used to it—though there are still nights when I can’t bring…
You know that feeling when your mind is overflowing with thoughts, but no words come out? When you want to talk, but it feels like no one would truly get…
Cheating scandals in Malaysia are popping up faster than new bubble tea shops. Every day, I wake up to yet another juicy headline—someone caught red-handed, another marriage down the drain.…
Some people leave your life, and you never expect to hear from them again. But sometimes, out of nowhere, they do. A friend I once considered close in my early…
I've never been the type to depend on others financially. By 15, I had already found ways to support myself, working as a waitress at catering events, including large functions…
I recently reactivated my Facebook account—not because I missed using it, but to check out what my mom had been posting for her birthday. Normally, my account stays deactivated because,…
I’ve been lying in bed for the past hour, staring at my laptop screen, unsure of how to begin this post. I’ve typed, deleted, and retyped more times than I…
I hate being a woman sometimes. Seriously, do you know how frustrating PMS (premenstrual syndrome) can be? It’s like an emotional rollercoaster that I never signed up for. I usually…
I recently met a friend for coffee. Oh, well! Someone finally got me out of my cave! 😅 She knows how much I dislike going out without a special reason,…
Yesterday, I came across an article about Janna Nick apologising for sharing posts related to her recent heartbreak. She also admitted that she isn’t mature enough. First of all, let…
"What have we achieved this year?" I asked my close friend at work, and as soon as those words left my mouth, we burst into laughter because we already knew…
You know that feeling when your brain has way too many tabs open? Thoughts racing, ideas bouncing around, and a never-ending to-do list staring back at you? Yeah, that’s me…
I've always had an interest in writing. Before I created my first blog in 2013 and became more serious about it in 2016, I used to pour my thoughts, feelings,…
I’ve been obsessed with “Snow on the Beach” lately—it’s been the soundtrack to my days; even now, it’s playing softly as I write this. It’s one of those songs that…
I just finished binge-watching Manifest Season 4 Part I on Netflix, and wow—my tear ducts are officially out of business. I ugly-cried like it was my full-time job when Zeke…
I remember the first time someone told me, "Don’t text him first, make him chase you." I nodded politely, but inside, I was thinking—Why would I want to play hide…
Rejection hurts. It always does, and usually more than we expect. There’s no escaping that sting—the disappointment, the bruised ego, the creeping doubts about self-worth. It’s a universal experience, something…
If you're someone who loves spending time at home or you're still trying to find joy in solitude, this post is for you. I’ve always been a homebody—not because I…
My friends and family have always described me as someone with a tough and firm personality. However, I wasn’t always like this. It took years of experience, self-reflection, and conscious…
Since COVID-19, my circle of online friends has grown wider. For someone like me, who struggles with social anxiety, having online friends is a blessing. It lets me connect with…
I’ve always imagined being in a committed relationship—sharing my life with someone who would love me as much as I loved him. The idea of building a future together and…
For the past 3 months, I went through a phase where every day felt heavy and uninspired. Throughout that period, I kept everyone at arm's length, avoided conversations, and spent…
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but self-love is a crucial part of good mental health. I chose this topic because many people struggle with self-love—including a dear…
I’ve never been a naturally private person. I used to be one of those people who shared almost everything with anyone willing to listen—or worse, with the entire internet. Whether…
“What is not started today is never finished tomorrow.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Dreams. We all have them. I’m not talking about the ones we get when we sleep.…
I got COVID-19 in February when the Omicron wave hit Malaysia. At the time, I was fully vaccinated with Sinovac and had received my booster shot (Pfizer). While vaccination doesn’t…
Have you ever found yourself in the dreaded situationship zone? You know, that strange limbo where you're more than friends but not quite lovers, with no real commitment in sight?…
As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that not every friendship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay. Life has a way of showing me that it’s better to…
I tergerak untuk tulis about this topic after I terbaca mengenai seorang DJ radio mempersendakan seorang guru yang mengajar di dalam bahasa Inggeris di salah satu program tv pendidikan. Actually,…
Sadness is something we all face. It's one of the most basic human emotions and a natural response to situations that are upsetting, painful, or disappointing. Sometimes, sadness lingers, resurfacing…
Have you ever been in this situation? You meet someone new. Things are going great. You’re texting every day, sharing laughs, and maybe even went on a few dates. Then…
Today, I decided to revisit the topic of being in a relationship with a married man. Four years ago, I shared my personal experience on this matter. You can read…
1. Know How to Drive. It’s important to learn how to drive. Once you’ve reached enough age to drive, go ahead and get your driving license. Having a license means…
I used to believe that love was about giving everything to someone else—your time, your energy, your whole heart. But what happens when you give so much that there’s nothing…
Unkindness. We’ve all felt it—the sting of words or actions that leave us asking, Why me? In those moments, it’s tempting to react—to defend ourselves or to make them feel…
As a woman, I feel deeply called to write this post—not for sympathy, but to help other women recognize the importance of self-worth. What I’m about to share is deeply…
I used to be like every other Gen Y person, living life through social media. Every day, I would scroll endlessly through my news feed, whether I was at home…
Having nightmares as an adult is normal. What becomes unusual is when you experience nightmares almost every day. If you fall into this "unusual" group, don’t worry—you’re not alone. In…
Topik hari ini sangat personal dan dekat di hati I. Ini adalah berdasarkan pengalaman hidup I sendiri selama bertahun-tahun. Sejujurnya, I memang lebih tertarik dengan Non-Malay which dating history I…
Let’s be real, meeting someone online is no longer a novelty. It’s the norm. Whether it’s for friendship, dating, or even networking, chances are your next interesting connection might just…
Disebabkan sebelum ni i pernah terjebak dengan "suami orang", i nak share sikit mengenai pengalaman i ni. Bukan apa, sebab i tahu ramai lagi wanita di luar sana yang masih…
Relationships have the power to shape our happiness, confidence, and sense of self. At their best, they’re a source of love, comfort, and growth. At their worst, they can leave…
Long-distance relationships (LDRs) aren't just a romantic idea you see in movies—they're very real, often challenging, and surprisingly common these days. Whether your partner lives in another city, country, or…
"Man sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. He becomes so anxious about the future that he fails to enjoy the…
Let’s be honest—dating someone who’s highly sensitive is not like dating just anyone. It’s not just about “being emotional” or “overthinking stuff.” It’s about navigating a world that feels just…
I’ve always loved my little world. A quiet, sacred space where I don’t have to explain myself. A space where I feel most alive—whether I'm reading, writing, overthinking, or simply…
At 28, I decided to embark on my first solo journey. It wasn’t something I had planned for years or a lifelong dream. It came from a simple realization: after…
I’ve always felt like one of those people who just doesn’t have the best luck in love. You know how it goes—everything starts off beautifully. The butterflies. The late-night calls.…
