Category: Motivation

You Can Be Afraid Of Love But Embrace It Anyway.

Hello there! 😃 It's been a while, hasn't it? Well, frankly speaking, I've been pretty tied up these past few months. Life has taken quite a turn, and I've found…
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There Are Plenty Of Fish In The Sea, But That Doesn’t Mean You Have To Pick One.

In a world that often makes being single seem like a problem, I've been rocking my single status for the past four years and living my best life. Instead of…
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Blog Niche: Writing Random Topics Vs. Focused Content.

If you've been keeping up with my blog, you might have noticed that I don't limit myself to a specific niche. It's a personal blog where I write about random…
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Can You Really Have Close Friendships With Your Exes?

I used to be quite close with most of my exes even after our relationships ended, simply because I saw no reason not to. To be honest, when I was…
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What’s Wrong With Married People These Days?

"If I had a penny for every married man who showed interest in me, I'd be rich." Yup, you read it right. I'd be married by now if I didn't…
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Adapting Yourself To Different People & Situations Is Not Being Fake.

I recently hung out with a friend for coffee. She made an interesting comment: "I don't treat people the same. I treat them based on their personalities." I can completely…
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Poetry in Progress: Editing Takes Forever (But It’s Worth It!)

I've always been a passionate fan of poetry, but one thing that often gets in my way is my own self-doubt. It's as if I'm my own worst critic, constantly…
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Speak Your Truth and Make a Difference.

In the past, I used to keep the bad experiences I had and what people did to me to myself, kept them hidden in my journal. I felt like I…
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The Mistakes I Made With Men In The Past That You Can Learn From.

Let's be real: relationships can be tough. As someone who has had her fair share of experiences with men, I know that building a strong and healthy connection takes effort…
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The Power of Giving Someone Closure.

Closure can often feel like an elusive concept that we may not always get in life, despite our best efforts. It's difficult to accept, but it's a truth we must…
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30 Things About Me That Most People Don’t Know.

We all have our quirks that make us stand out in our own way, right? Sometimes, these quirks can be difficult to share with others, especially if we fear that…
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The 15 Types of People I Avoid Befriending at All Costs.

As a social creature, I know firsthand how important it is to surround ourselves with good company and cultivate meaningful friendships. However, the reality is that not everyone we meet…
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Being Destroyed By Someone Can Often Force You To Re-create Yourself

I must admit, I actually tried to avoid writing this kind of blog post now, but yeah, it's been some time since I've written anything about my emotions, especially about…
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My Experience Being A Vegan For 7 Days.

As someone who has been interested in healthy eating and sustainability, I've been curious about going vegan for quite some time. So, for the past 7 days, I decided to…
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How Self-Care And Self-Improvement Matters for Self-Confidence.

"Nat, I'm so pretty!" I texted him with a giggle as I looked at my reflection in the mirror. It was a random message, but I felt this sudden urge…
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Why I Like Living A Simple Life.

I've always been someone who appreciates the simple things in life, so it's no surprise that I prefer to live a simple life rather than chasing after constant busyness or…
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Always Cherish People Who Truly Love And Care For Us.

My brother's father-in-law was in critical condition two days ago following a road accident. When the doctor told our family there was nothing they could do, we hoped for a…
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The Basic Disciplines That I Think Everybody Should Practice.

Have you ever noticed how basic discipline appears to be a dying art these days? With the constant distractions of technology and the lack of boundaries in our daily lives,…
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The Psychology Of Manipulation You Should Now.

I recently read a fascinating book about the psychology of manipulation and was struck by how common these tactics are in our daily lives, both at home and at work.…
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I’m glad I met some great people on Tinder before I stopped using it.

I last used Tinder about two years ago, and I had over 2000 matches. Yes, you read that correctly: 2000! It's safe to say that I was pretty active on…
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10 Hard Truth Of Psychology And Life I’ve Learned.

As I've gone through life, I've come to realize that it can be full of ups and downs. However, some of the most valuable lessons I've learned have come from…
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Writing for Mental Health: How I Discovered the Healing Power of Words.

Writing has been my go-to buddy during my darkest times. I know that it's not always easy to open up to others, and at times it can feel like nobody…
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I Can Never Understand Why People Cheat.

Cheating is a big issue in Malaysia these days. Every day, I wake up to new articles online, about people getting divorced because their partner cheated on them. It's truly…
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I Avoid Bringing People From My Past Back Into My Life.

A friend who I considered a close friend in my early 20s recently, out of the blue, got in touch with me. Honestly, I was surprised when I received a…
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I Replied To A Sugar Daddy Offer On Instagram.

I've never been the type of person who relies on other people's money for my own needs.  By the time I was 15, I had already learned to work to…
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I’m Terrible At Remembering People.

I just recently activated my Facebook account so that I could check out what my mother has been posting on her profile because she recently celebrated her birthday. I usually…
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PMS : The Time When I Hate Myself, My Life, And Everyone.

I hate being a woman sometimes. Do you know how frustrating premenstrual syndrome (PMS) can be? It's never easy when you have to deal with it. I normally experience PMS…
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Let People Cope With Things In Any Way They Want.

I read an article yesterday in which Janna Nick apologized for sharing stuff related to her recent heartbreak, and she also admitted that she isn't mature enough. First of all,…
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Why I Love Being In My 30s More Than My 20s.

Like everyone else, I slightly dreaded turning 30 when I was in my late 20s. It seemed a little frightening to me to think that I was no longer very…
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My Superpower Is Being An Empath And Sometimes It Sucks.

I just finished binge-watching Manifest Season 4 Part I on Netflix. I cried so hard as I watched Zeke using his empathic abilities to absorb Cal's cancer, saving Cal and…
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Happy, free, confused and annoyed at the same time.

My big brother, has been nagging me lately to go out, meet some guys, and pick a hot one for myself. "Go wild," he said, "Have some fun!" Well, apparently,…
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Never Regret Dating The Person Who Broke Your Heart.

We, as humans, tend to go through life with many regrets. We wish we had never met certain people, followed certain paths, or avoided certain things. "I wish I could…
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Dating Advice On The Internet I’ll Never Follow.

Nowadays, dating advice can be found everywhere. It's all over the internet; you can see it on TikTok, IG Reel, Youtube, or simply Google it and bam! all sorts of…
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Have You Ever Felt Like You Have No One To Talk To?

Life has been rough for me lately. My mother got ill two weeks ago from a lung infection, and her blood test also revealed the presence of viruses in her…
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Coping With Rejection By Someone You Like.

Rejection hurts — it always hurts, and it usually hurts more than we expect it to. There is no doubt about that. Your ego has been hurt, and worst of…
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How I Spend My Free Time At Home.

As an introvert, I've spent a lot of time by myself at home. That's what I've always preferred (and need). Typically, those who don't know me well would say: "Why…
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Things I Have Stopped Doing That Have Made My Life Better.

My friends and family described me as someone with a tough and firm personality. I believe that I fully developed this personality when I reached my 30s. That means I…
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The Reasons Why I’ll Always Value My Online Friends

I've built a wider circle of online friends since COVID-19. For someone who lives with social anxiety, having online friends is a real blessing. It allows me to connect with…
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How my perspectives on dating have changed throughout the years

When it comes to a committed relationship, I used to be the one who looked forward to it. I loved the idea of having a life partner—to love and be…
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Things I Did When I Felt Lost & Purposeless

I recently struggled with the feeling of being lost and purposeless for around three months before I finally overcame it. Throughout that period, I kept everyone at a distance, didn't…
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How You Can Start A Self Love Journey

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but self-love is a crucial part of good mental health. I’m sharing this topic today because I know there are a lot…
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Why I’m Keeping My Life As Private As Possible

I'm not naturally a private person. I used to be one of those people that shared almost everything with anyone around me who was willing to listen or worse, on…
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Why You Should Always Pursue Your Dreams.

“What is not started today is never finished tomorrow.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Dreams. We all have them. I’m not talking about the ones we get when we sleep.…
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My Experience Fighting COVID-19

I got COVID-19 in February when the Omicron wave hit Malaysia. I was fully vaccinated with Sinovac in June 2021 and got my booster shot (Pfizer) in December 2021, but,…
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Situationship: The Undefined Relationship “What Are We?”

Have you ever found yourself in the dreaded "Situationship" zone? You know, that place where you're more than friends but not quite lovers, and there's no real commitment? It can…
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Toxic Friendships: The Thin Line Between Loyalty and Self-Respect.

At this point in my life, I can honestly say that I don't have many friends, and I'm perfectly content with that. While part of me feels like I could…
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Jangan Malu Untuk Bercakap Broken English.

I tergerak untuk tulis about this topic after I terbaca mengenai seorang DJ radio mempersendakan seorang guru yang mengajar di dalam bahasa Inggeris di salah satu program tv pendidikan. Actually,…
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How i deal with sadness and be happy instead

We, humans, can't run away from sadness. It is considered one of the basic human emotions. It is a normal response to situations that are upsetting, painful, or disappointing. The…
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Cara Untuk Boost Self-Confidence & Self-Esteem

If you are low in self-confidence and self-esteem; selalu percaya you tak cukup cantik, tak cukup bergaya, tak cukup pandai, tak cukup sempurna, dll.…trust me, that can be changed. It…
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Cara Untuk Move On Selepas Kena ‘Ghosting’.

Pernah tak bila kita kenal someone, tak ada angin, tak ada ribut, tiba-tiba dia hilang? Dia berhenti cari you, text you, call you or reply to you. Ataupun, baru semalam…
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20 Perkara Penting Perempuan Zaman Sekarang Patut Tahu,Ada Dan Faham

1. Pastikan tahu drive kereta.  Yes, you need to know how to drive. Kalau boleh, cukup je umur terus pergi ambil lesen. Ada kereta atau tak, tu lain cerita. Yang…
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Dealing With People Who Are Unkind To You And How To Let It Go

Life has a knack for throwing unkindness our way, putting our patience and inner strength to the test. Dealing with it can be tough, yet it's through these very experiences…
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My Biggest Lesson Of 2019 : Never Betray Yourself For Someone You Love.

As a woman, I'm moved to write this article because I want other women to realize the importance of self-worth. What I'm about to share is a personal story of…
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A Mind Blowing Moments Of 3 Years Writing.

I can't believe that I started Wanderhoney 3 years ago. Wow! how time flies. Who would have thought that my blog could help many people; even got my own fan!…
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Why I Removed Facebook From My Life

I used to be like every other Gen Y person, living my life through social media. Tiap-tiap hari tak berhenti tengok my news feed tak kira la samaada i di…
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Risiko Bercinta Dengan Non-Malay Atau Non-Muslim

Tajuk hari ini adalah berdasarkan dari pengalaman diri i sendiri. If you tertanya-tertanya samaada mudah ke bercinta dengan Non-Malay atau Non-Muslim ni? Jawapan i adalah TIDAK. Bila bercakap mengenai perbezaan Malay…
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Pengalaman Bercinta Dengan Suami Orang

Disebabkan sebelum ni i pernah terjebak dengan "suami orang", i nak share sikit mengenai pengalaman i ni. Bukan apa, sebab i tahu ramai lagi wanita di luar sana yang masih…
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Long Distance Relationships : What You Need To Know & Expect.

Long-distance relationships (LDRs) are becoming more common, especially among young people. But, many people believe that long-distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and…
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Ways To Live Life To The Fullest

"Man, because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not…
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Nasihat I Untuk Yang Masih Berumur Di Awal 20’an

It was my birthday 2 days ago. Yay! Happy birthday to me, again! To ibu ayah, thank you so much for being the best parents in the world! Walaupun banyak kekurangan, ibu ayah tetap…
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Things You Have To Know If You’re Dating A Highly Sensitive Person

As a sensitive person, I know that being sensitive comes with its own set of ups and downs. But let me tell you, it's not all bad. In fact, there…
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What it feels like to be an Introvert.

I love my little world. I get tired just from too much time with people. I feel frustrated when I explain to someone that I need alone time and they responds,…
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What My First Solo Trip Has Taught Me

I was 28 years old when I took my first solo trip. I made the decision to travel alone after reflecting on my achievements throughout 2015 - which were quite…
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