Category: Motivation

Officially One Year Older: Am I Bad, Mad Or Wiser?

Urgh, I hate getting older, but I think it's time to embrace it—embrace the changes. I like to think that I'm forever 27, clinging to that age like it's frozen…
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You Can Be Afraid Of Love But Embrace It Anyway.

Hello there! 😃 It's been a while, hasn't it? Well, frankly speaking, I've been pretty tied up these past few months. Life has taken quite a turn, and I've found…
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There Are Plenty Of Fish In The Sea, But That Doesn’t Mean You Have To Pick One.

In a world that often makes being single seem like a problem, I've been rocking my single status for the past four years and living my best life. Instead of…
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Blog Niche: Writing Random Topics Vs. Focused Content.

If you've been keeping up with my blog, you might have noticed that I don't limit myself to a specific niche. It's a personal blog where I write about random…
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Can You Really Have Close Friendships With Your Exes?

I used to be quite close with most of my exes even after our relationships ended, simply because I saw no reason not to. To be honest, when I was…
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What’s Wrong With Married People These Days?

"If I had a penny for every married man who showed interest in me, I'd be rich." Yup, you read it right. I'd be married by now if I didn't…
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Adapting Yourself To Different People & Situations Is Not Being Fake.

I recently hung out with a friend for coffee. She made an interesting comment: "I don't treat people the same. I treat them based on their personalities." I can completely…
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Poetry in Progress: Editing Takes Forever (But It’s Worth It!)

I've always been a passionate fan of poetry, but one thing that often gets in my way is my own self-doubt. It's as if I'm my own worst critic, constantly…
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Speak Your Truth and Make a Difference.

In the past, I used to keep the bad experiences I had and what people did to me to myself, kept them hidden in my journal. I felt like I…
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The Mistakes I Made With Men In The Past That You Can Learn From.

Let's be real: relationships can be tough. As someone who has had her fair share of experiences with men, I know that building a strong and healthy connection takes effort…
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The Power of Giving Someone Closure.

Closure can often feel like an elusive concept that we may not always get in life, despite our best efforts. It's difficult to accept, but it's a truth we must…
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30 Things About Me That Most People Don’t Know.

We all have our quirks that make us stand out in our own way, right? Sometimes, these quirks can be difficult to share with others, especially if we fear that…
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The 15 Types of People I Avoid Befriending at All Costs.

Friendships are one of life’s greatest treasures, but not everyone we meet is meant to be part of our journey. Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of protecting my…
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Being Destroyed By Someone Can Often Force You To Re-create Yourself

I must admit, I actually tried to avoid writing this kind of blog post now, but yeah, it's been some time since I've written anything about my emotions, especially about…
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My Experience Being A Vegan For 7 Days.

As someone who has been interested in healthy eating and sustainability, I've been curious about going vegan for quite some time. So, for the past 7 days, I decided to…
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How Self-Care And Self-Improvement Matters for Self-Confidence.

"Nat, I'm so pretty!" I texted him with a giggle as I looked at my reflection in the mirror. It was a random message, but I felt this sudden urge…
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Why I Like Living A Simple Life.

I've always been someone who appreciates the simple things in life, so it's no surprise that I prefer to live a simple life rather than chasing after constant busyness or…
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Always Cherish People Who Truly Love And Care For Us.

My brother's father-in-law was in critical condition two days ago following a road accident. When the doctor told our family there was nothing they could do, we hoped for a…
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The Basic Disciplines That I Think Everybody Should Practice.

Have you ever noticed how basic discipline appears to be a dying art these days? With the constant distractions of technology and the lack of boundaries in our daily lives,…
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The Psychology Of Manipulation You Should Now.

I recently read a fascinating book about the psychology of manipulation and was struck by how common these tactics are in our daily lives, both at home and at work.…
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I’m glad I met some great people on Tinder before I stopped using it.

I last used Tinder about two years ago, and I had over 2000 matches. Yes, you read that correctly: 2000! It's safe to say that I was pretty active on…
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My Week Has Been A Writing Rollercoaster

This past week has been nothing short of insane. Being someone who likes to write, I’m always chasing inspiration. This time, it felt like I spent an unusually long stretch…
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10 Hard Truth Of Psychology And Life I’ve Learned.

As I've gone through life, I've come to realize that it can be full of ups and downs. However, some of the most valuable lessons I've learned have come from…
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How I cope with nightmare disorder & frequent sleep paralysis

Since my childhood, I've suffered from nightmare disorder and sleep paralysis. It's wild but at this point, I've gotten used to it—even though sometimes it causes me to avoid sleeping.…
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Writing for Mental Health: How I Discovered the Healing Power of Words.

Writing has been my go-to buddy during my darkest times. I know that it's not always easy to open up to others, and at times it can feel like nobody…
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I Can Never Understand Why People Cheat.

Cheating is a big issue in Malaysia these days. Every day, I wake up to new articles online, about people getting divorced because their partner cheated on them. It's truly…
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I Avoid Bringing People From My Past Back Into My Life.

A friend who I considered a close friend in my early 20s recently, out of the blue, got in touch with me. Honestly, I was surprised when I received a…
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I Replied To A Sugar Daddy Offer On Instagram.

I've never been the type of person who relies on other people's money for my own needs.  By the time I was 15, I had already learned to work to…
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I’m Terrible At Remembering People.

I just recently activated my Facebook account so that I could check out what my mother has been posting on her profile because she recently celebrated her birthday. I usually…
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I Write, Even When I Have No Idea What to Say

I’ve been lying in bed for the past hour, staring at my laptop screen, unsure of how to begin this post. I’ve typed, deleted, and retyped more times than I…
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PMS : The Time When I Hate Myself, My Life, And Everyone.

I hate being a woman sometimes. Do you know how frustrating premenstrual syndrome (PMS) can be? It's never easy when you have to deal with it. I normally experience PMS…
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Girl Talk: About Children And Dating Life.

I recently met a friend for coffee. Oh, Well! Someone finally got me out of my cave! 😁 She's aware that I don't like to go out without a special…
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Let People Cope With Things In Any Way They Want.

I read an article yesterday in which Janna Nick apologized for sharing stuff related to her recent heartbreak, and she also admitted that she isn't mature enough. First of all,…
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3:00AM Writing With A Cup Of Salted Caramel Latte.

"What have we achieved this year?" I asked my close friend at work, and as soon as those words left my mouth, we burst into laughter because we already knew…
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My Brain,Taking A Break And Pursuing What I Want

I’m feeling completely overwhelmed right now. My brain has too many tabs open—thoughts, ideas, and a to-do list that just keeps growing. Honestly, sometimes I can’t keep up with my…
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Why I Love Being In My 30s More Than My 20s.

Like everyone else, I slightly dreaded turning 30 when I was in my late 20s. It seemed a little frightening to me to think that I was no longer very…
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How Hard It Is To Write?

I have always had an interest in writing. Before I created my first blog in 2013 and became more serious about it in 2016, I used to write about my…
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Snow On The Beach, Feelings And All That Matters.

I’ve been obsessed with “Snow on the Beach” lately—it’s been the soundtrack to my days; even now, it’s playing softly as I write this. It’s one of those songs that…
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My Superpower Is Being An Empath And Sometimes It Sucks.

I just finished binge-watching Manifest Season 4 Part I on Netflix. I cried so hard as I watched Zeke using his empathic abilities to absorb Cal's cancer, saving Cal and…
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Happy, free, confused and annoyed at the same time.

My big brother, has been nagging me lately to go out, meet some guys, and pick a hot one for myself. "Go wild," he said, "Have some fun!" Well, apparently,…
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Never Regret Dating The Person Who Broke Your Heart.

We, as humans, tend to go through life with many regrets. We wish we had never met certain people, followed certain paths, or avoided certain things. "I wish I could…
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Dating Advice On The Internet I’ll Never Follow.

Nowadays, dating advice can be found everywhere. It's all over the internet; you can see it on TikTok, IG Reel, Youtube, or simply Google it and bam! all sorts of…
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Have You Ever Felt Like You Have No One To Talk To?

Life has been rough for me lately. My mother fell ill two weeks ago with a lung infection, and her blood test revealed the presence of viruses. Knowing she needed…
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Coping With Rejection By Someone You Like.

Rejection hurts — it always hurts, and it usually hurts more than we expect it to. There is no doubt about that. Your ego has been hurt, and worst of…
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How I Spend My Free Time At Home.

As an introvert, I've spent a lot of time by myself at home. That's what I've always preferred (and need). Typically, those who don't know me well would say: "Why…
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Things I Have Stopped Doing That Have Made My Life Better.

My friends and family described me as someone with a tough and firm personality. I believe that I fully developed this personality when I reached my 30s. That means I…
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The Reasons Why I’ll Always Value My Online Friends

I've built a wider circle of online friends since COVID-19. For someone who lives with social anxiety, having online friends is a real blessing. It allows me to connect with…
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How My Perspectives On Dating Have Changed Throughout The Years

In the past, I looked forward to being in a committed relationship. The idea of having a life partner—to love and be loved—was something I cherished. Growing up, life forced…
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How I Found My Way Back When I Felt Lost and Purposeless

For the past 3 months, I went through a phase where every day felt heavy and uninspired. Throughout that period, I kept everyone at arm's length, avoided conversations, and spent…
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How You Can Start A Self Love Journey

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but self-love is a crucial part of good mental health. I chose this topic because many people struggle with self-love—including a dear…
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Why I’m Keeping My Life As Private As Possible

I’ve never been a naturally private person. I used to be one of those people who shared almost everything with anyone willing to listen—or worse, with the entire internet. Whether…
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Why You Should Always Pursue Your Dreams.

“What is not started today is never finished tomorrow.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Dreams. We all have them. I’m not talking about the ones we get when we sleep.…
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My Experience Fighting COVID-19

I got COVID-19 in February when the Omicron wave hit Malaysia. At the time, I was fully vaccinated with Sinovac and had received my booster shot (Pfizer). While vaccination doesn’t…
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Situationship: The Undefined Relationship “What Are We?”

Have you ever found yourself in the dreaded situationship zone? You know, that strange limbo where you're more than friends but not quite lovers, with no real commitment in sight?…
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Why Letting Go of Toxic Friendships Is Self-Care

As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that not every friendship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay. Life has a way of showing me that it’s better to…
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Jangan Malu Untuk Bercakap Broken English.

I tergerak untuk tulis about this topic after I terbaca mengenai seorang DJ radio mempersendakan seorang guru yang mengajar di dalam bahasa Inggeris di salah satu program tv pendidikan. Actually,…
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How I Deal With Sadness And Be Happy Instead

Sadness is something we all face. It's one of the most basic human emotions and a natural response to situations that are upsetting, painful, or disappointing. Sometimes, sadness lingers, resurfacing…
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Cara Untuk Move On Selepas Kena ‘Ghosting’.

Pernah tak bila kita kenal someone, tak ada angin, tak ada ribut, tiba-tiba dia hilang? Dia berhenti cari you, text you, call you or reply to you. Ataupun, baru semalam…
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My Advice for a Woman in a Relationship with a Married Man

Today, I decided to revisit the topic of being in a relationship with a married man. Four years ago, I shared my personal experience on this matter. You can read…
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Things Every Modern Woman Should Know

1. Know How to Drive.  It’s important to learn how to drive. Once you’ve reached enough age to drive, go ahead and get your driving license. Having a license means…
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What Heartbreak Taught Me About Loving Myself

I used to believe that love was about giving everything to someone else—your time, your energy, your whole heart. But what happens when you give so much that there’s nothing…
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Dealing With People Who Are Unkind To You And How To Let It Go

Unkindness. We’ve all felt it—the sting of words or actions that leave us asking, Why me? In those moments, it’s tempting to react—to defend ourselves or to make them feel…
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My Biggest Lesson Of 2019 : Never Betray Yourself For Someone You Love.

As a woman, I'm moved to write this article because I want other women to realize the importance of self-worth. What I'm about to share is a personal story of…
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Why I Removed Facebook from My Life

I used to be like every other Gen Y person, living life through social media. Every day, I would scroll endlessly through my news feed, whether I was at home…
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Constantly Having Nightmares? You Can Try These Tips

Having nightmares as an adult is normal. What becomes unusual is when you experience nightmares almost every day. If you fall into this "unusual" group, don’t worry—you’re not alone. In…
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Risiko Bercinta Dengan Non-Malay Atau Non-Muslim

Tajuk hari ini adalah berdasarkan dari pengalaman diri i sendiri. If you tertanya-tertanya samaada mudah ke bercinta dengan Non-Malay atau Non-Muslim ni? Jawapan i adalah TIDAK. Bila bercakap mengenai perbezaan Malay…
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Meeting New People Online? Here’s How to Stay Safe and Have Fun

Meeting someone online is no longer something strange these days. In fact, it’s now the most common way relationships start. Probably because nowadays, people spend so much time online. Writing…
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Pengalaman Bercinta Dengan Suami Orang

Disebabkan sebelum ni i pernah terjebak dengan "suami orang", i nak share sikit mengenai pengalaman i ni. Bukan apa, sebab i tahu ramai lagi wanita di luar sana yang masih…
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10 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship

Relationships have the power to shape our happiness, confidence, and sense of self. At their best, they’re a source of love, comfort, and growth. At their worst, they can leave…
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Long Distance Relationships : What You Need To Know & Expect.

Long-distance relationships (LDRs) are becoming more common, especially among young people. But, many people believe that long-distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and…
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Break Free: Ways To Live Life To The Fullest

"Man sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. He becomes so anxious about the future that he fails to enjoy the…
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Things You Have To Know If You’re Dating A Highly Sensitive Person

As a sensitive person, I know that being sensitive comes with its own set of ups and downs. But let me tell you, it's not all bad. In fact, there…
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How I Start Living A Happier And Self-Kinder Life

I still remember when I first started working in Putrajaya; life was incredibly tough. Meals were irregular—sometimes, I’d only eat once a day. On lucky days, I could afford rice.…
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What it feels like to be an Introvert.

I love my little world. I get tired just from too much time with people. I feel frustrated when I explain to someone that I need alone time and they responds,…
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What My First Solo Trip Has Taught Me

At 28, I decided to embark on my first solo journey. It wasn’t something I had planned for years or a lifelong dream. It came from a simple realization: after…
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Lesson I’ve Learned From My Past Relationships

I’ve always felt like I’m one of those people who has bad luck in love. Like many, the relationship starts off great—fun times, laughter, and memories—but then things start to…
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