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I’ve always loved my little world.

A quiet, sacred space where I don’t have to explain myself. A space where I feel most alive—whether I’m reading, writing, overthinking, or simply just… being.

Spending too much time with people exhausts me. It drains my energy in a way that’s hard to describe unless you’ve truly felt it. And when I tell people that I need alone time, some respond with,

“Yeah, I need that sometimes too.”

But no, you don’t quite get it. Alone time isn’t something I occasionally crave. It’s my default. It’s how I function. I thrive in solitude.

If I’m leaving a gathering and someone tries to stop me to “catch up,” I might seem uninterested. Not because I mean to be, but because in that moment, my energy has flatlined. I physically can’t handle another extended conversation.

So, fellow introvert—I see you. I understand you. And that’s exactly why I’m writing this.

✅ Loneliness in Crowds, Peace in Solitude

I’ve felt most lonely while surrounded by people. Crowds don’t comfort me; they smother me. But put me near trees, books, music, or a blank page—and suddenly I’m inspired again.

I’m not shy. I’m not antisocial. I’m just selectively social.

Small talk bores me. Loud people overwhelm me. Forced conversations drain me. But if you want to talk about life, pain, creativity, or the quiet ache in your heart—I’m all ears. I’ll sit with you, fully present.

I love being alone, but I hate being left alone. There’s a difference.

✅ Things You Might Not Know About Me

• I don’t get bored when I’m alone. In fact, I rarely feel lonely.

• I’m not afraid of people; I just don’t want to be around them all the time.

• I can go hours without speaking and be perfectly content.

• I tend to only speak when I genuinely care about the topic—if I don’t, I can’t fake interest.

• If I say, “I don’t feel like talking,” please don’t push me. I’m trying to preserve my energy, not offend you.

✅ A Deep World Inside My Head

I spend a lot of time inside my own mind. Overthinking, daydreaming, analyzing the smallest moments. I have a strong sense of self-awareness and I notice the energy of people around me deeply. If someone’s irritated or angry, I absorb it like a sponge—it’s overwhelming.

I often prefer expressing myself through writing instead of speaking. I find comfort in typing thoughts I can’t quite say out loud. My creativity gives me fuel. I can write, design, or get lost in art for hours without realizing the time has passed.

✅ I’m Not Difficult, I Just… Function Differently

Sometimes, people think I’m cold or distant. The truth is, I just don’t connect easily. I value deep conversations and genuine connections, and I have a very high standard for who I spend my time with.

I don’t care much for social status, trends, or popularity.
I don’t follow the crowd. I don’t chase what’s considered “normal.”
I like what I like. I do what I want. I value freedom, space, and autonomy.

Yes, I can be fun, silly, and talkative—especially around people I know and trust. But when I’ve had enough, I disappear to recharge. No texts, no calls, just quiet.

✅ When You Get Me, You Get All of Me

When I find someone who truly understands me, I hold on tight. I don’t need a crowd—just a few souls who genuinely get me. When you get me, you get all of me, not just the parts I choose to show. I don’t share everything easily—not because I don’t trust, but because some parts of me are sacred, meant only for those who take the time to see past the surface. I live life on my own terms, and I find peace in that freedom. I don’t always want to talk, and it’s never personal—sometimes I just need space to breathe, to think, to simply exist. That’s just who I am, and I’ve learned to honour that about myself.

Final Thoughts

Being an introvert doesn’t mean I’m sad, shy, or broken—it simply means I experience the world through a different lens. I find joy in quiet moments, in the stillness most people overlook. I feel everything deeply, think endlessly, and love with intensity—but only when it’s genuine. If you’re like me, know this: there’s absolutely nothing wrong with needing space. There’s beauty in solitude and power in truly understanding yourself. We’re not missing out on life—we’re just living it in our own meaningful, quiet way.

And that, in every sense, is perfectly okay.

Until then, Hani. 

If my words made your day, a coffee would make mine.🥰