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Two days ago, my brother’s father-in-law was in critical condition after a road accident. When the doctor told our family there was nothing more they could do, we clung to hope, praying for a miracle. Sadly, he passed away during the night. His sudden departure has left an irreplaceable void in our hearts. He was a vibrant, loving father and a kind-hearted man, and his passing hit especially hard for my sister-in-law, who was incredibly close to him.

I remember the last time I saw him. He had a warm smile, always making everyone feel welcome. He had this way of making people laugh, even on their worst days. The thought that someone so full of life could be gone in an instant is heartbreaking.

When my brother shared the news, an overwhelming heaviness settled in my chest. Tears streamed down my face as I imagined the pain and grief my sister-in-law and her family must be going through. Even as I write this, my eyes well up with tears. My mind replays moments with the people I cherish, reminding me how fleeting life truly is. It’s sobering to realize that at any moment, without warning, someone we love could be gone forever.

Life is unpredictable.

“We take love for granted, thinking there will always be more time. Until there isn’t.”

We never know what tomorrow holds. One moment, everything feels normal, and in the next, life shifts in ways we never anticipated. His sudden passing has left me with a heavy heart, but it has also awakened a deeper realisation: we must show our love and appreciation for those who matter while we still can.

In this fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in our own struggles, schedules, and distractions, forgetting to express gratitude to the people around us. We assume there will always be time—until suddenly, there isn’t. And when they’re gone, we’re left with a deep sense of regret, wishing we had said more, done more, or simply cherished them better.

A Simple Reminder: Love Out Loud

Today, I want to remind you to appreciate the people who bring joy, support, and love into your life. It could be family, friends, a coworker, or even an online connection. Some of the most impactful relationships in my life have been built online—through words of encouragement, shared laughter, and meaningful conversations that transcend distance. The bonds we create, whether in person or virtually, hold immense value.

So, let’s make an effort to cherish those who make life beautiful. Here are a few simple ways to show appreciation today:

• Write a heartfelt message to someone special, telling them how much they mean to you.
• Call a family member just to say, “I love you.”
• Make time for a friend, even if it’s just a quick chat.
• Surprise someone with kindness, whether it’s a small gift, a warm hug, or a few words of encouragement.
• Reflect on the people in your life and remind yourself not to take them for granted.

The simplest gesture can mean the world to someone. Don’t wait until it’s too late to show your love and appreciation.

A Moment for Reflection

Now that you’ve finished reading this, take a moment and think:

If you lost someone dear to you today, would you regret not telling them how much they meant to you?

Let’s not live with regrets. Show your love now. Express your appreciation while you still have the chance. ❤️

X, Hani. ❤