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Views Last 30 days : 2568When it comes to beauty, we’ve all had those moments of curiosity that led us to experiment with new trends and products. Looking back, I can’t help but cringe at some of the choices I made—ones I wish I could undo. But yeah, beauty is a journey, and mistakes are part of the learning process!
As I reflect on my past beauty blunders, I can’t help but laugh at my naivety. I was once obsessed with beauty (okay, maybe I still am), but over time, I’ve grown and learned a lot. So, here are seven beauty mistakes I’ve made—so you don’t have to!
1. Going Overboard with Eyelash Extensions
Once upon a time, I was obsessed with having thick and long eyelash extensions. That is because my own natural lashes are short and I have quite big eyes. So, in my mind, dramatic extensions would be the perfect fix, as they could create beautiful illusions and transform my look.
I was wrong! Instead of enhancing my look, my oversized lashes made me look ridiculous and fake. They were so thick and long that they completely overwhelmed my face, making my eyes look smaller rather than bigger. On top of that, they felt heavy and uncomfortable, causing my natural lashes to weaken and fall out over time.
I’ve learned that the key is to pick shorter lashes with a more natural look, not longer than 8mm. This way, they complement your eyes without overpowering your entire face.
2. Trusting Every Home Remedy I Saw Online
“Oh no, what happened to your face? What did you do this time?” My friend asked, clearly puzzled by the appearance of my irritated skin.
With an awkward grin, I replied, “I tried using Chocolate as a facemask. I saw it online, and it claimed to smooth the skin.“
“Hani!” my friend burst into laughter, and honestly, I couldn’t blame her. Yes, I was that naive. 😂
At one point, I was completely obsessed with DIY skincare. I used to think, if it’s natural, it must be good for my skin! So, I slathered my face with all kinds of food-based masks—egg yolks, honey, mayonnaise, and even cinnamon. It was like a never-ending experiment, and I genuinely believed I was on the path to flawless skin. The reality? Some of these remedies caused breakouts, irritation, and even infections.Â
I now know that not everything in your kitchen belongs on your face. Some ingredients, like lemon, are too acidic, while others, like mayonnaise, can clog pores. Lesson learned: Stick to dermatologist-approved skincare products tailored to your skin type. Trust me, your skin will thank you!
3. Waiting Too Long to Get Braces
Growing up, my teeth weren’t perfect—they were slightly crooked, and my upper teeth pushed forward, making my gums more visible when I smiled. Since braces were expensive, I convinced myself my teeth weren’t that bad.
But as I got older, I became more self-conscious about my smile. I found myself avoiding wide smiles in photos, constantly hiding my teeth in candid shots. I envied people with perfectly aligned teeth and started to regret not fixing mine sooner.
Fast forward to my 30s, and I finally decided to get braces at 33. The transformation has been incredible, and I only wish I had done it sooner. It was a long process, but so worth it. Now, I smile with confidence, and my gums are no longer visible
If you’re thinking about getting braces but feel like it’s “too late,” trust me—it’s never too late to invest in your confidence!
4. Dyeing My Hair Jet Black
My natural hair color is a soft brunette, but for most of my life, I gravitated toward lighter shades—blonde being my favorite. I also enjoyed experimenting with different shades as long as they weren’t dark.
However, colored hair comes with its downsides, particularly the costly maintenance, and diligent hair care required to keep the color looking fresh. I had to touch up the color every 3 months to maintain it. At some point, I got annoyed by it, so I decided to dye my hair jet black. It turned out to be even darker than my natural hair color, and looked unnatural against my skin tone, so I soon realized it wasn’t a good decision, and I regretted it deeply. At the time, my ex even said, “What happened? You look like Cher,” and it didn’t exactly boost my confidence. ðŸ˜
5. Trusting the Wrong Hair Salons
There’s only one hairstylist I trust with my hair, and in the past, whenever I wanted a hair color, I would go straight to him. He takes great care of my hair and always knows what is best for me. Since his salon is a bit far from my place, I had to go to another salon nearby for a haircut or to try a different style.
Many hairstylists failed to understand what suits my face shape and features. I walked out of appointments feeling disappointed, sporting styles that did nothing for me. Some cuts made my face look rounder, while others aged me instantly.
Now, I’m extremely selective about where I go because the wrong haircut can completely change your look (and not in a good way). If you find a stylist who truly understands your hair, stick with them—it’s worth the extra effort!
6. Skipping Sunscreen in My 20s
Sunscreen is a game-changer when it comes to caring for your skin, and I wish I had known its importance earlier. Living in a hot weather country, our skin gets a lot of sun exposure, which can cause damage and speed up the aging process, leading to wrinkles and fine lines.
Unfortunately, during my 20s, I didn’t give sunscreen the attention it deserved, and now I’m facing the consequences, which also cost me a lot of money to fix. Looking back, I can’t help but regret not making sunscreen a daily habit back then. Now I’ve learned my lesson and make sure to apply it diligently every day to protect my skin from wrinkles and aging.
7. Abandoning Skincare Completely
I once stopped using beauty products for months. I believed that ditching beauty products would be healthier for my skin. I thought going all-natural would lead to a glowing complexion. Spoiler alert: It didn’t.
My skin became dull, oily, and it led to breakouts. After a while, I decided to use beauty products again. With a simple skincare routine, my complexion improved in just a few weeks. The products balanced my skin’s oil production and provided the hydration it needed. It’s time to admit that not all ingredients found in beauty products are harmful; some can actually work wonders for the skin.
Also, not exfoliating regularly was another big mistake—I didn’t realize how essential it was for my skin’s texture and appearance. When I finally tried a deep exfoliator, it made a huge difference. It gently removed dead skin cells and impurities, making my skin smoother and more radiant. Now I understand the value of regular deep exfoliation and how it helps other skincare products work better.
Reflecting on my beauty journey has been both amusing and enlightening. I’ve made my fair share of mistakes, but each one has taught me valuable lessons. If my experiences can help you avoid similar pitfalls, then sharing them was worth it.
X, Hani.Â
