Urgh, I hate getting older, but I think it's time to embrace it—embrace the changes. I like to think that I'm forever 27, clinging to that age like it's frozen…
Hello there! 😃 It's been a while, hasn't it? Well, frankly speaking, I've been pretty tied up these past few months. Life has taken quite a turn, and I've found…
In a world that often makes being single seem like a problem, I've been rocking my single status for the past four years and living my best life. Instead of…
If you’ve been following my blog for a while, you’ve probably noticed something—I don’t stick to just one topic. And you know what? I love it that way. My blog…
The other day, I was having coffee with a friend when she said something that really stuck with me: "I don’t treat people the same way. I treat them based…
There was a time when I kept my pain locked away in the pages of my journal. Every betrayal, every cruel word, every wound—I buried them deep, afraid of what…
Let’s be real: relationships can be incredibly rewarding but also incredibly challenging. As someone who has been through her fair share of relationship ups and downs, I’ve learned a lot—sometimes…
Closure often feels like an elusive concept, something we long for but don’t always get, no matter how much we wish for it. It’s difficult to accept, but if we…
We all have our little quirks—those unique things that make us who we are. Some are endearing, some are downright weird, and some make people question our life choices. But…
Friendships are one of life’s greatest treasures, but not everyone we meet is meant to be part of our journey. Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of protecting my…
I must admit, I’ve avoided writing this kind of post for a while. It’s never easy to reopen old wounds, to look back at the moments that broke me, and…
As someone who has always been interested in healthy eating and sustainability, I’ve been curious about trying a vegan lifestyle. So, for the past seven days, I took the plunge…
I've always been someone who appreciates the simple things in life, so it's no surprise that I prefer a simple lifestyle over chasing constant busyness or material possessions. To me,…
Two days ago, my brother’s father-in-law was in critical condition after a road accident. When the doctor told our family there was nothing more they could do, we clung to…
Have you ever noticed how basic discipline seems to be fading away these days? With constant digital distractions and fewer boundaries in our daily lives, maintaining discipline has become increasingly…
Ever had a conversation that left you doubting yourself? Or a friendship that constantly made you feel guilty, even when you did nothing wrong? Maybe you've dealt with someone who…
I last used Tinder about two years ago, and I had over 2,000 matches. Yes, you read that correctly: 2,000! It's safe to say that I was pretty active on…
This past week has been nothing short of insane. Being someone who likes to write, I’m always chasing inspiration. This time, it felt like I spent an unusually long stretch…
Life is a rollercoaster of experiences—some lift us up, while others humble us in ways we never expected. The hardest lessons often shape us the most, influencing how we see…
Since childhood, I’ve suffered from nightmare disorder and sleep paralysis. It sounds wild, but at this point, I’ve gotten used to it—though there are still nights when I can’t bring…
You know that feeling when your mind is overflowing with thoughts, but no words come out? When you want to talk, but it feels like no one would truly get…
Cheating scandals in Malaysia are popping up faster than new bubble tea shops. Every day, I wake up to yet another juicy headline—someone caught red-handed, another marriage down the drain.…
Some people leave your life, and you never expect to hear from them again. But sometimes, out of nowhere, they do. A friend I once considered close in my early…
I've never been the type to depend on others financially. By 15, I had already found ways to support myself, working as a waitress at catering events, including large functions…
I recently reactivated my Facebook account—not because I missed using it, but to check out what my mom had been posting for her birthday. Normally, my account stays deactivated because,…
I’ve been lying in bed for the past hour, staring at my laptop screen, unsure of how to begin this post. I’ve typed, deleted, and retyped more times than I…
I hate being a woman sometimes. Seriously, do you know how frustrating PMS (premenstrual syndrome) can be? It’s like an emotional rollercoaster that I never signed up for. I usually…
I recently met a friend for coffee. Oh, well! Someone finally got me out of my cave! 😅 She knows how much I dislike going out without a special reason,…
Yesterday, I came across an article about Janna Nick apologising for sharing posts related to her recent heartbreak. She also admitted that she isn’t mature enough. First of all, let…
"What have we achieved this year?" I asked my close friend at work, and as soon as those words left my mouth, we burst into laughter because we already knew…
You know that feeling when your brain has way too many tabs open? Thoughts racing, ideas bouncing around, and a never-ending to-do list staring back at you? Yeah, that’s me…
Like everyone else, I slightly dreaded turning 30 when I was in my late 20s. It felt like stepping into some mysterious void where I would no longer be "young,"…
I've always had an interest in writing. Before I created my first blog in 2013 and became more serious about it in 2016, I used to pour my thoughts, feelings,…
I’ve been obsessed with “Snow on the Beach” lately—it’s been the soundtrack to my days; even now, it’s playing softly as I write this. It’s one of those songs that…
I just finished binge-watching Manifest Season 4 Part I on Netflix, and wow—my tear ducts are officially out of business. I ugly-cried like it was my full-time job when Zeke…
Nowadays, dating advice is everywhere. It’s all over the internet—you can find it on TikTok, IG Reels, YouTube, or just by Googling it, and bam! A flood of advice appears.…
Rejection hurts. It always does, and usually more than we expect. There’s no escaping that sting—the disappointment, the bruised ego, the creeping doubts about self-worth. It’s a universal experience, something…
As an introvert, I've spent a lot of time by myself at home. That’s what I’ve always preferred (and needed). People who don’t know me well often assume otherwise, saying…
My friends and family have always described me as someone with a tough and firm personality. However, I wasn’t always like this. It took years of experience, self-reflection, and conscious…
Since COVID-19, my circle of online friends has grown wider. For someone like me, who struggles with social anxiety, having online friends is a blessing. It lets me connect with…
I’ve always imagined being in a committed relationship—sharing my life with someone who would love me as much as I loved him. The idea of building a future together and…
For the past 3 months, I went through a phase where every day felt heavy and uninspired. Throughout that period, I kept everyone at arm's length, avoided conversations, and spent…
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but self-love is a crucial part of good mental health. I chose this topic because many people struggle with self-love—including a dear…
I’ve never been a naturally private person. I used to be one of those people who shared almost everything with anyone willing to listen—or worse, with the entire internet. Whether…
“What is not started today is never finished tomorrow.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Dreams. We all have them. I’m not talking about the ones we get when we sleep.…
I got COVID-19 in February when the Omicron wave hit Malaysia. At the time, I was fully vaccinated with Sinovac and had received my booster shot (Pfizer). While vaccination doesn’t…
Have you ever found yourself in the dreaded situationship zone? You know, that strange limbo where you're more than friends but not quite lovers, with no real commitment in sight?…
As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that not every friendship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay. Life has a way of showing me that it’s better to…
I tergerak untuk tulis about this topic after I terbaca mengenai seorang DJ radio mempersendakan seorang guru yang mengajar di dalam bahasa Inggeris di salah satu program tv pendidikan. Actually,…
Sadness is something we all face. It's one of the most basic human emotions and a natural response to situations that are upsetting, painful, or disappointing. Sometimes, sadness lingers, resurfacing…
Pernah tak bila kita kenal someone, tak ada angin, tak ada ribut, tiba-tiba dia hilang? Dia berhenti cari you, text you, call you or reply to you. Ataupun, baru semalam…
Today, I decided to revisit the topic of being in a relationship with a married man. Four years ago, I shared my personal experience on this matter. You can read…
1. Know How to Drive. It’s important to learn how to drive. Once you’ve reached enough age to drive, go ahead and get your driving license. Having a license means…
I used to believe that love was about giving everything to someone else—your time, your energy, your whole heart. But what happens when you give so much that there’s nothing…
Unkindness. We’ve all felt it—the sting of words or actions that leave us asking, Why me? In those moments, it’s tempting to react—to defend ourselves or to make them feel…
As a woman, I'm moved to write this article because I want other women to realize the importance of self-worth. What I'm about to share is a personal story of…
I used to be like every other Gen Y person, living life through social media. Every day, I would scroll endlessly through my news feed, whether I was at home…
Having nightmares as an adult is normal. What becomes unusual is when you experience nightmares almost every day. If you fall into this "unusual" group, don’t worry—you’re not alone. In…
Tajuk hari ini adalah berdasarkan dari pengalaman diri i sendiri. If you tertanya-tertanya samaada mudah ke bercinta dengan Non-Malay atau Non-Muslim ni? Jawapan i adalah TIDAK. Bila bercakap mengenai perbezaan Malay…
Meeting someone online is no longer something strange these days. In fact, it’s now the most common way relationships start. Probably because nowadays, people spend so much time online. Writing…
Disebabkan sebelum ni i pernah terjebak dengan "suami orang", i nak share sikit mengenai pengalaman i ni. Bukan apa, sebab i tahu ramai lagi wanita di luar sana yang masih…
Relationships have the power to shape our happiness, confidence, and sense of self. At their best, they’re a source of love, comfort, and growth. At their worst, they can leave…
Long-distance relationships (LDRs) are becoming more common, especially among young people. But, many people believe that long-distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and…
"Man sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. He becomes so anxious about the future that he fails to enjoy the…
I still remember when I first started working in Putrajaya; life was incredibly tough. Meals were irregular—sometimes, I’d only eat once a day. On lucky days, I could afford rice.…
I love my little world. I get tired just from too much time with people. I feel frustrated when I explain to someone that I need alone time and they responds,…
At 28, I decided to embark on my first solo journey. It wasn’t something I had planned for years or a lifelong dream. It came from a simple realization: after…
I’ve always felt like I’m one of those people who has bad luck in love. Like many, the relationship starts off great—fun times, laughter, and memories—but then things start to…
