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Do You Really Need a Niche to Be a Blogger? My Honest Take!

Posted on June 6, 2023March 5, 2025 by Auri Duham

If you’ve been following my blog for a while, you’ve probably noticed something—I don’t stick to just one topic. And you know what? I love it that way. My blog…

Can You Really Have Close Friendships With Your Exes?

Posted on June 4, 2023May 19, 2025 by Auri Duham

I used to be the type of person who stayed friends with most of my exes. Not because I was clinging to the past, but simply because I saw no…

What’s Wrong With Married People These Days?

Posted on June 3, 2023July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

"If I had a penny for every married man who showed interest in me, I'd be rich." Yup, you read that right. If I had no morals and didn’t care…

Adapting Yourself To Different People & Situations Is Not Being Fake.

Posted on June 2, 2023March 4, 2025 by Auri Duham

The other day, I was having coffee with a friend when she said something that really stuck with me: "I don’t treat people the same way. I treat them based…

Speak Your Truth: How Sharing Your Story Can Make a Difference

Posted on May 8, 2023March 17, 2025 by Auri Duham

There was a time when I kept my pain locked away in the pages of my journal. Every betrayal, every cruel word, every wound—I buried them deep, afraid of what…

10 Relationship Mistakes Women Make (And How to Avoid Them!)

Posted on May 7, 2023February 27, 2025 by Auri Duham

Let’s be real: relationships can be incredibly rewarding but also incredibly challenging. As someone who has been through her fair share of relationship ups and downs, I’ve learned a lot—sometimes…

The Importance of Giving Closure: A Gift of Healing and Growth

Posted on April 18, 2023February 27, 2025 by Auri Duham

Closure often feels like an elusive concept, something we long for but don’t always get, no matter how much we wish for it. It’s difficult to accept, but if we…

30 Quirky Facts About Me You Didn’t Know (But Probably Should!)

Posted on April 14, 2023June 4, 2025 by Auri Duham

We all have our little quirks—those unique things that make us who we are. Some are endearing, some are downright weird, and some make people question our life choices. But…

15 Types of Toxic People You Should Avoid for a Happier Life

Posted on April 9, 2023February 25, 2025 by Auri Duham

Friendships are one of life’s greatest treasures, but not everyone we meet is meant to be part of our journey. Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of protecting my…

How Pain Pushed Me to Become My Best Self

Posted on April 7, 2023March 17, 2025 by Auri Duham

I must admit, I’ve avoided writing this kind of post for a while. It’s never easy to reopen old wounds, to look back at the moments that broke me, and…

I Tried a Vegan Diet for 7 Days; Here’s What Happened

Posted on April 7, 2023February 24, 2025 by Auri Duham

As someone who has always been interested in healthy eating and sustainability, I’ve been curious about trying a vegan lifestyle. So, for the past seven days, I took the plunge…

How Self-Care and Self-Improvement Boost Confidence and Change My Life

Posted on April 3, 2023February 24, 2025 by Auri Duham

"Nat, I'm so pretty!" I texted him with a giggle as I admired my reflection in the mirror. It was a random message, but I had this sudden burst of…

Why I Love Living a Simple Life: 5 Ways It Changed Me for the Better

Posted on March 26, 2023February 24, 2025 by Auri Duham

I've always been someone who appreciates the simple things in life, so it's no surprise that I prefer a simple lifestyle over chasing constant busyness or material possessions. To me,…

Cherish Loved Ones: Appreciate Those Who Truly Care Before It’s Too Late

Posted on March 21, 2023February 24, 2025 by Auri Duham

Two days ago, my brother’s father-in-law was in critical condition after a road accident. When the doctor told our family there was nothing more they could do, we clung to…

The Must-Have Life Disciplines: Simple Rules for a Better You

Posted on March 20, 2023February 22, 2025 by Auri Duham

Have you ever noticed how basic discipline seems to be fading away these days? With constant digital distractions and fewer boundaries in our daily lives, maintaining discipline has become increasingly…

7 Powerful Manipulation Tactics and How to Outsmart Them

Posted on March 18, 2023June 14, 2025 by Auri Duham

Ever had a conversation that left you doubting yourself? Or a friendship that constantly made you feel guilty, even when you did nothing wrong? Maybe you've dealt with someone who…

I Had 2,000 Tinder Matches and Here’s What I Learned

Posted on March 16, 2023February 22, 2025 by Auri Duham

I last used Tinder about two years ago, and I had over 2,000 matches. Yes, you read that correctly: 2,000! It's safe to say that I was pretty active on…

What I Learned This Week About Writing, Creativity, and Self-Doubt

Posted on March 12, 2023February 19, 2025 by Auri Duham

This past week has been nothing short of insane. Being someone who likes to write, I’m always chasing inspiration. This time, it felt like I spent an unusually long stretch…

10 Hard Truths About Psychology and Life You Need to Know

Posted on March 11, 2023February 19, 2025 by Auri Duham

Life is a rollercoaster of experiences—some lift us up, while others humble us in ways we never expected. The hardest lessons often shape us the most, influencing how we see…

How I Deal with Frequent Nightmare Disorder and Sleep Paralysis

Posted on March 9, 2023February 17, 2025 by Auri Duham

Since childhood, I’ve suffered from nightmare disorder and sleep paralysis. It sounds wild, but at this point, I’ve gotten used to it—though there are still nights when I can’t bring…

How Writing Became My Therapy in Difficult Times

Posted on March 7, 2023February 15, 2025 by Auri Duham

You know that feeling when your mind is overflowing with thoughts, but no words come out? When you want to talk, but it feels like no one would truly get…

I’ll Never Understand Why People Cheat and Honestly, I Don’t Want To

Posted on February 26, 2023July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

Cheating scandals in Malaysia are popping up faster than new bubble tea shops. Every day, I wake up to yet another juicy headline—someone caught red-handed, another marriage down the drain.…

Why I Refuse to Let People From My Past Back Into My Life

Posted on February 18, 2023February 9, 2025 by Auri Duham

Some people leave your life, and you never expect to hear from them again. But sometimes, out of nowhere, they do. A friend I once considered close in my early…

I Replied To A Sugar Daddy Offer On Instagram—Here’s My Experience

Posted on January 28, 2023February 10, 2025 by Auri Duham

I've never been the type to depend on others financially. By 15, I had already found ways to support myself, working as a waitress at catering events, including large functions…

When You Don’t Remember People, But They Remember You

Posted on December 25, 2022February 7, 2025 by Auri Duham

I recently reactivated my Facebook account—not because I missed using it, but to check out what my mom had been posting for her birthday. Normally, my account stays deactivated because,…

I Write, Even When I Have No Idea What to Say

Posted on December 18, 2022December 26, 2024 by Auri Duham

I’ve been lying in bed for the past hour, staring at my laptop screen, unsure of how to begin this post. I’ve typed, deleted, and retyped more times than I…

PMS Struggles: Mood Swings, Cravings, and Coping Mechanisms

Posted on December 17, 2022February 7, 2025 by Auri Duham

I hate being a woman sometimes. Seriously, do you know how frustrating PMS (premenstrual syndrome) can be? It’s like an emotional rollercoaster that I never signed up for. I usually…

Girl Talk: Do Children Really Owe Their Parents? A Conversation Worth Having.

Posted on December 10, 2022February 7, 2025 by Auri Duham

I recently met a friend for coffee. Oh, well! Someone finally got me out of my cave! 😅 She knows how much I dislike going out without a special reason,…

The Importance of Letting People Cope in Their Own Way

Posted on December 4, 2022July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

Yesterday, I came across an article about Janna Nick apologising for sharing posts related to her recent heartbreak. She also admitted that she isn’t mature enough. First of all, let…

3:00AM Writing With A Cup Of Salted Caramel Latte.

Posted on November 27, 2022December 23, 2024 by Auri Duham

"What have we achieved this year?" I asked my close friend at work, and as soon as those words left my mouth, we burst into laughter because we already knew…

My Brain,Taking A Break And Pursuing What I Want

Posted on November 24, 2022February 7, 2025 by Auri Duham

You know that feeling when your brain has way too many tabs open? Thoughts racing, ideas bouncing around, and a never-ending to-do list staring back at you? Yeah, that’s me…

Writing Is Hard—Here’s Why and What You Can Do About It

Posted on November 18, 2022February 7, 2025 by Auri Duham

I've always had an interest in writing. Before I created my first blog in 2013 and became more serious about it in 2016, I used to pour my thoughts, feelings,…

Snow On The Beach, Feelings And All That Matters

Posted on November 7, 2022July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

I’ve been obsessed with “Snow on the Beach” lately—it’s been the soundtrack to my days; even now, it’s playing softly as I write this. It’s one of those songs that…

Why Being an Empath Feels Like a Superpower—And a Curse

Posted on November 6, 2022February 6, 2025 by Auri Duham

I just finished binge-watching Manifest Season 4 Part I on Netflix, and wow—my tear ducts are officially out of business. I ugly-cried like it was my full-time job when Zeke…

Happy, Free, Confused And Annoyed At The Same Time.

Posted on October 29, 2022February 6, 2025 by Auri Duham

My big brother has been on my case lately. "Go out, meet some guys, pick a hot one for yourself!" he says, like I can just walk into a store…

Why You Should Never Regret Dating Someone Who Broke Your Heart

Posted on October 22, 2022July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

We all have regrets. Maybe it’s a person we wish we had never met, a path we wish we had never taken, or a mistake we wish we could undo.…

Dating Advice On The Internet I’ll Never Follow

Posted on October 10, 2022July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

I remember the first time someone told me, "Don’t text him first, make him chase you." I nodded politely, but inside, I was thinking—Why would I want to play hide…

Coping with Rejection: When Someone You Like Doesn’t Feel the Same

Posted on October 5, 2022July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

Rejection hurts. It always does, and usually more than we expect. There’s no escaping that sting—the disappointment, the bruised ego, the creeping doubts about self-worth. It’s a universal experience, something…

How I Make the Most of My Free Time at Home

Posted on September 18, 2022June 16, 2025 by Auri Duham

If you're someone who loves spending time at home or you're still trying to find joy in solitude, this post is for you. I’ve always been a homebody—not because I…

Things I Have Stopped Doing To Create A Better, More Peaceful Life

Posted on September 4, 2022February 1, 2025 by Auri Duham

My friends and family have always described me as someone with a tough and firm personality. However, I wasn’t always like this. It took years of experience, self-reflection, and conscious…

The Reasons Why I’ll Always Value My Online Friends

Posted on September 1, 2022January 31, 2025 by Auri Duham

Since COVID-19, my circle of online friends has grown wider. For someone like me, who struggles with social anxiety, having online friends is a blessing. It lets me connect with…

How My Perspectives On Dating Have Changed Throughout The Years

Posted on August 25, 2022July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

I’ve always imagined being in a committed relationship—sharing my life with someone who would love me as much as I loved him. The idea of building a future together and…

How I Found My Way Back When I Felt Lost and Purposeless

Posted on August 14, 2022January 17, 2025 by Auri Duham

For the past 3 months, I went through a phase where every day felt heavy and uninspired. Throughout that period, I kept everyone at arm's length, avoided conversations, and spent…

How You Can Start A Self Love Journey

Posted on August 5, 2022January 17, 2025 by Auri Duham

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but self-love is a crucial part of good mental health. I chose this topic because many people struggle with self-love—including a dear…

Why I’m Keeping My Life As Private As Possible

Posted on August 3, 2022January 24, 2025 by Auri Duham

I’ve never been a naturally private person. I used to be one of those people who shared almost everything with anyone willing to listen—or worse, with the entire internet. Whether…

Why You Should Always Pursue Your Dreams.

Posted on July 29, 2022January 13, 2025 by Auri Duham

“What is not started today is never finished tomorrow.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Dreams. We all have them. I’m not talking about the ones we get when we sleep.…

My Experience Fighting COVID-19

Posted on April 24, 2022January 12, 2025 by Auri Duham

I got COVID-19 in February when the Omicron wave hit Malaysia. At the time, I was fully vaccinated with Sinovac and had received my booster shot (Pfizer). While vaccination doesn’t…

Situationship: The Undefined Relationship “What Are We?”

Posted on July 25, 2021July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

Have you ever found yourself in the dreaded situationship zone? You know, that strange limbo where you're more than friends but not quite lovers, with no real commitment in sight?…

Why Letting Go of Toxic Friendships Is Self-Care

Posted on July 23, 2021December 30, 2024 by Auri Duham

As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that not every friendship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay. Life has a way of showing me that it’s better to…

Jangan Malu Untuk Bercakap Broken English.

Posted on February 21, 2021April 18, 2023 by Auri Duham

I tergerak untuk tulis about this topic after I terbaca mengenai seorang DJ radio mempersendakan seorang guru yang mengajar di dalam bahasa Inggeris di salah satu program tv pendidikan. Actually,…

How I Deal With Sadness And Be Happy Instead

Posted on February 6, 2021December 27, 2024 by Auri Duham

Sadness is something we all face. It's one of the most basic human emotions and a natural response to situations that are upsetting, painful, or disappointing. Sometimes, sadness lingers, resurfacing…

How to Move On After Being Ghosted (Without Losing Your Mind)

Posted on January 2, 2021June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

Have you ever been in this situation? You meet someone new. Things are going great. You’re texting every day, sharing laughs, and maybe even went on a few dates. Then…

My Advice for a Woman in a Relationship with a Married Man

Posted on August 12, 2020July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

Today, I decided to revisit the topic of being in a relationship with a married man. Four years ago, I shared my personal experience on this matter. You can read…

Things Every Modern Woman Should Know

Posted on August 7, 2020December 27, 2024 by Auri Duham

1. Know How to Drive. It’s important to learn how to drive. Once you’ve reached enough age to drive, go ahead and get your driving license. Having a license means…

What Heartbreak Taught Me About Loving Myself

Posted on July 19, 2020July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

I used to believe that love was about giving everything to someone else—your time, your energy, your whole heart. But what happens when you give so much that there’s nothing…

Dealing With People Who Are Unkind To You And How To Let It Go

Posted on June 6, 2020June 14, 2025 by Auri Duham

Unkindness. We’ve all felt it—the sting of words or actions that leave us asking, Why me? In those moments, it’s tempting to react—to defend ourselves or to make them feel…

My Biggest Lesson Of 2019: Never Betray Yourself For Someone You Love

Posted on November 28, 2019November 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

As a woman, I feel deeply called to write this post—not for sympathy, but to help other women recognize the importance of self-worth. What I’m about to share is deeply…

Why I Removed Facebook from My Life

Posted on September 4, 2017June 13, 2025 by Auri Duham

I used to be like every other Gen Y person, living life through social media. Every day, I would scroll endlessly through my news feed, whether I was at home…

Constantly Having Nightmares? You Can Try These Tips

Posted on August 23, 2017June 13, 2025 by Auri Duham

Having nightmares as an adult is normal. What becomes unusual is when you experience nightmares almost every day. If you fall into this "unusual" group, don’t worry—you’re not alone. In…

Risiko Bercinta Dengan Non-Malay Atau Non-Muslim

Posted on June 29, 2017July 11, 2025 by Auri Duham

Topik hari ini sangat personal dan dekat di hati I. Ini adalah berdasarkan pengalaman hidup I sendiri selama bertahun-tahun. Sejujurnya, I memang lebih tertarik dengan Non-Malay which dating history I…

Meeting New People Online? Here’s How to Stay Safe and Have Fun

Posted on June 16, 2017July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

Let’s be real, meeting someone online is no longer a novelty. It’s the norm. Whether it’s for friendship, dating, or even networking, chances are your next interesting connection might just…

Pengalaman Bercinta Dengan Suami Orang

Posted on December 31, 2016June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

Disebabkan sebelum ni i pernah terjebak dengan "suami orang", i nak share sikit mengenai pengalaman i ni. Bukan apa, sebab i tahu ramai lagi wanita di luar sana yang masih…

10 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship

Posted on December 21, 2016December 27, 2024 by Auri Duham

Relationships have the power to shape our happiness, confidence, and sense of self. At their best, they’re a source of love, comfort, and growth. At their worst, they can leave…

15 Honest Truths About Long Distance Relationships (That No One Tells You)

Posted on October 4, 2016June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

Long-distance relationships (LDRs) aren't just a romantic idea you see in movies—they're very real, often challenging, and surprisingly common these days. Whether your partner lives in another city, country, or…

Break Free: Ways To Live Life To The Fullest

Posted on July 13, 2016December 13, 2024 by Auri Duham

"Man sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. He becomes so anxious about the future that he fails to enjoy the…

Dating a Highly Sensitive Person? Here’s What You Really Need to Know

Posted on June 1, 2016June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

Let’s be honest—dating someone who’s highly sensitive is not like dating just anyone. It’s not just about “being emotional” or “overthinking stuff.” It’s about navigating a world that feels just…

What It Feels Like To Be An Introvert

Posted on May 27, 2016June 14, 2025 by Auri Duham

I’ve always loved my little world. A quiet, sacred space where I don’t have to explain myself. A space where I feel most alive—whether I'm reading, writing, overthinking, or simply…

What My First Solo Trip Has Taught Me

Posted on May 26, 2016June 13, 2025 by Auri Duham

At 28, I decided to embark on my first solo journey. It wasn’t something I had planned for years or a lifelong dream. It came from a simple realization: after…

20 Real-Life Lessons I Learned From My Past Relationships

Posted on March 18, 2016June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

I’ve always felt like one of those people who just doesn’t have the best luck in love. You know how it goes—everything starts off beautifully. The butterflies. The late-night calls.…

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