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To Every Hani I’ve Ever Been: Thank You for Getting Me Here

Posted on June 23, 2026July 8, 2026 by Auri Duham

"Dear Hani, Happy Birthday. You're young enough to still have dreams that haven't happened yet, but old enough to know that life rarely unfolds according to the plans you carefully…

I Asked ChatGPT What It Thinks of Me Based on Our Conversations

Posted on June 19, 2026June 19, 2026 by Auri Duham

I didn’t always know where to place my thoughts or who I could share them with without feeling judged. Over the years, they ended up scattered in one place: questions,…

Here’s What I Did to Heal My Dry and Cracked Lips

Posted on June 9, 2026 by Auri Duham

I once went through a terrible phase of having extremely dry lips. Not only were they dry, but they were also cracked and flaky. Every time I wore lipstick, it…

Celebrating My Best Friend’s Birthday and Our First Time Trying Luckin Coffee

Posted on June 4, 2026 by Auri Duham

10 Pots Steambot and Grill is my best friend's favourite restaurant, so when her birthday came around, I did not have to think twice about where to take her. To…

A Date With Myself and My Diet Era Is Officially On!

Posted on May 19, 2026June 4, 2026 by Auri Duham

The last time I went on a date with myself was probably before Covid, I think? I was single at the time, and I enjoyed it so much. I don’t…

What If I Had Made Different Choices? What Would My Life Look Like?

Posted on May 10, 2026May 19, 2026 by Auri Duham

There are moments in life when I sit quietly and wonder whether everything has already been written for us long before we were even born, as if we are simply…

I Used to Chase Feelings and Called it Love, Now I Choose Safety

Posted on April 30, 2026May 19, 2026 by Auri Duham

I know what it feels like to love someone with everything in me. Not halfway, not casually. I gave myself fully. I’ve lived through my first relationship, and I’ve experienced…

Finally Hosted My First Gathering: Bringing My Favourite People Together

Posted on April 17, 2026May 19, 2026 by Auri Duham

Today I finally get to slow down, take a breath, and sit down to write again. It feels so nice to come back here and share a little life update,…

First Date Mistakes: The Dos and Don’ts I Learned From Experience

Posted on March 12, 2026May 19, 2026 by Auri Duham

I’m in my late 30s now… Over the years, I’ve been on more dates than I can count. Different people. Different backgrounds. Different races. There was also a period when…

The Future May Be Uncertain, But I’m Excited and Prepared for What’s Coming

Posted on March 4, 2026May 19, 2026 by Auri Duham

A lot has been going on since the beginning of 2026, and it feels almost unreal to say that we are already in March. January quietly slipped into February, and…

Marriage Can Make You or Ruin You: Lessons on Love, Respect, and Dignity

Posted on March 2, 2026May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

About a month ago, someone I knew passed away from a heart attack. For months before that, he had been on medical leave, in and out of the hospital. I'm…

A Lunch Date at Tamarind Square and Little Moments That Matter

Posted on February 20, 2026February 27, 2026 by Auri Duham

Have you ever said something casually like, “Next time, I’ll treat you,” and then your brain decides to archive it in bold, capital letters, highlighted, underlined… and replay it at…

The Quiet Strength of a Low-Maintenance Friendship

Posted on January 27, 2026May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

Some friendships don’t need constant checking in. They don’t need daily texts, weekly catch-ups, or reassurance that we still matter to each other. And this is the kind of friendship…

How Growing Older Changed My Life Goals, Desires, and Definition of Success

Posted on January 16, 2026May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

When I was younger, my life goal was simple and loud: I wanted to be a career woman. Not just someone with a job, but someone important. Someone at the…

Stranger Things Season 5 Finale Review: A Bittersweet Goodbye to the Series

Posted on January 2, 2026May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

Stranger Things... my favorite TV series closed its final chapter yesterday, and I’m still sitting with a mix of emotions I don’t quite know how to untangle. Part of me…

Reflecting on 2025: Lessons, Growth, and Moments I’m Proud Of

Posted on December 30, 2025May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

It’s the end of 2025, and for the first time in a long while, I’m not rushing to label my year as good or bad. I’m just sitting with it.…

Moving On Without Forgetting: Choosing to Love Yourself More

Posted on December 12, 2025June 4, 2026 by Auri Duham

"'Cause there we are again when I loved you so, back before you lost the one real thing you've ever known. It was rare, I was there, I remember it…

I Don’t Have To Be “Like The Others.” I Can Own My Lane

Posted on August 19, 2025May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

"Why don’t you join TikTok? You’d get so many followers!" I’ve been asked this question more times than I can count. People assume that being a blogger automatically means I…

5 Savage (But Effective) Tricks I Use to Deal with Unwanted Attention from Men

Posted on July 26, 2025May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

There are still men out there who believe that if a woman is single, she must automatically be open to being approached, flirted with, or interrupted. It usually starts casually,…

How We Spend Quality Time Together As A Couple (Without Fancy Plans)

Posted on July 11, 2025May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

My partner and I don’t get to see each other every day. In fact, we usually only meet once or twice a week, typically on weekends. He lives about a…

Why You Need To Set Boundaries at Work Before It’s Too Late

Posted on May 17, 2025May 20, 2026 by Auri Duham

Let’s have a real conversation. One that might be uncomfortable but is necessary. Something that seems to be increasingly forgotten in our modern workplaces, especially when you're married or in…

I Often Feel Like I Don’t Belong or Fit In And Maybe That’s How It Should Be

Posted on May 15, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Have you ever walked into a room and felt like you didn’t quite belong? Like there was an invisible wall between you and everyone else... one you couldn’t explain, but…

Self-Care Guilt: Why You Feel It & How to Overcome It for Good

Posted on March 18, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Today, I want to talk about something that so many of us struggle with: self-care guilt. Picture this: You, finally getting a quiet moment to yourself. A warm cup of…

With Love, Meghan Netflix Review: Cringe, Cozy, or Surprisingly Good?

Posted on March 7, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

The other day, while aimlessly browsing the internet, I stumbled upon reviews of Netflix’s latest reality series, With Love, Meghan. To say it received mixed reactions would be an understatement.…

Mistakes or Choices? The Truth We Don’t Like to Admit

Posted on March 4, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

We all make mistakes. We say something we shouldn’t have. Hit snooze too many times and end up rushing through our mornings. Keep a part of our past from our…

How to Romanticize Your Life and Make Every Day Feel Special

Posted on March 3, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Let’s be real, life isn’t a movie with a dramatic soundtrack playing in the background. No one’s cueing the perfect song while you stare out the window, lost in thought.…

Blood in Cat’s Urine: My Experience & What You Need to Know

Posted on March 2, 2025June 29, 2026 by Auri Duham

Two weeks ago, before heading to work, I noticed something was off with my cat, Jack. He was hiding under the bed, keeping a distance from me. That wasn’t like…

What To Do When Someone Wasn’t Honest with You From The Start?

Posted on March 2, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

There’s a specific kind of pain that comes with discovering that the person you love, the person you trusted... wasn’t honest with you from the start. It’s like standing in…

Healing from Heartbreak: This Isn’t the End of Your Story

Posted on February 19, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I was talking to a friend recently about her breakup, and as she shared her story, her voice cracked under the weight of her pain. It broke my heart. I…

11 Things I Wish I Knew in My 20s Before Turning 30

Posted on February 7, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Ah, your 20s... the decade of impulsive decisions, cringe-worthy fashion trends, and the illusion that you have life all figured out. (Spoiler: you don’t.) It’s an era of trial and…

How One Simple Act of Decision Can Change Everything

Posted on January 24, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Life is full of choices, though not all of them seem important at first. Yet, it’s often a single decision that sets the course for major change, leading to growth,…

2024 Was a Year of Changes and Growth, Looking Ahead to 2025

Posted on January 10, 2025May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Part 1: Career and Personal Growth Happy New Year, Wanderhaners! Okay, I totally just made that word up! 😂 I thought giving my readers a special name would be fun.…

Maybe It’s Okay To Not Have It All Figured Out

Posted on November 21, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

It’s raining outside. My all-time favourite weather. There’s something about the sound of rain that makes everything feel softer and slower, as if life itself is gently telling me to…

Love Doesn’t Just Disappear, It Fades When We Stop Choosing It

Posted on November 8, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Sitting at my desk at work, I put on my headphones and let Crying City’s "Lucky" play softly in my ears. I try to focus on the words I’m supposed…

Lonely Planet Made Me Wonder: Why Haven’t I Written My Own Book?

Posted on October 30, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

After getting back from work yesterday and relaxing on my sofa, I scrolled through Netflix to see what was new. Typically, I’d just scroll and end up not watching anything,…

Happy, But Not Happier – And Still Grateful for It All

Posted on September 26, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Happy, but not happier. This is the phrase that keeps floating in my mind when people ask, "How are you feeling?" Yet my answer is always, "I’m okay." I can’t…

Will the Pain from Loving Unconditionally Ever Go Away?

Posted on September 6, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

"Sayang, I feel sorry for myself when I look back at my photos from 2019. It’s sad to think how much sadness was hidden behind that smile," I told my…

Officially One Year Older: Am I Bad, Mad, or Just a Little Wiser?

Posted on July 7, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Urgh, I hate getting older.But hey, maybe it's time I stop whining and start embracing it... all the changes, all the growth. In my head, I’m still 27, clinging to…

To the Man I Loved and Let Go: Thank You, Chris

Posted on July 5, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Not every love story ends in forever, and that doesn’t make it any less real or meaningful. Today, I want to take a moment to honor someone I rarely talk…

Is It Okay To Look At Your Partner’s Phone?

Posted on May 7, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I recently came across a video on Instagram where a woman asked her husband if she could use his phone. Despite her simple request, it was striking to see how…

Take Me Back to 2018–2019: A Look at the Best Years Yet

Posted on April 20, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

As I recently scrolled through my external hard drive to delete some old photos, I found myself swept up in a wave of nostalgia. Seeing photos of myself smiling, laughing,…

I Don’t Like Routine and I Need to Manage My Time Better

Posted on March 21, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Honestly, I’m sitting here with no idea what to write. Just letting my brain and fingers do their thing. I can’t lie, I’m frustrated with myself for not writing more.…

A Positive Start Of The Year And I’m Hype For What Lies Ahead!

Posted on February 8, 2024May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Reflecting on the past year, I kicked off 2023 with a big list of New Year's resolutions. Yep, it might sound a bit silly to some, but let's keep it…

I Was Scared to Love Again But I Did It Anyway (And You Can Too)

Posted on December 2, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I've been pretty tied up these past few months. Life has taken quite a turn, and I've found myself juggling between the demands of work and the need to get…

7 Common Bad Manners You Might Be Guilty Of (And How to Fix Them)

Posted on July 30, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Have you ever found yourself in situations where you wished someone's manners were just... better? You know, those moments when someone sneezes without covering their mouth, talks over everyone, or…

6 Little Things You Can Do To Put a Smile On His Face

Posted on July 30, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

If you are one of my regular readers, you already know how much the little things mean to me. I often express this sentiment in my posts, as I consider…

My First Date in Years Reminded Me Why I Prefer Being Single

Posted on July 22, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I went on a date recently. Yes. An actual, sit-down-with-a-human-being date.And honestly? I think I enjoyed the getting ready part more than the date itself. It’s been years since I’ve…

Learn to Be Content on Your Own and Break Free from Negativity

Posted on July 22, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I recently had a conversation with someone who seemed to be facing some tough challenges in life. I find it very difficult to say anything positive to him, and I…

The Joy of Being a Friendly Local to Visitors from Around the World

Posted on July 15, 2023June 30, 2026 by Auri Duham

As someone who loves to travel, I’ve come to realize that it's not always the sights that leave the deepest impressions, but the people. The connections I make with locals…

Why Being Single Isn’t a Problem to Be Solved (Even if Everyone Thinks It Is)

Posted on July 13, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

In a world that often makes being single seem like a problem, I've been rocking my single status for the past 4 years and living my best life. Instead of…

I’m Not A Backpacker,Never A Fan Of Backpacking And Here’s Why

Posted on June 7, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Backpacking... just the word itself sounds adventurous, right? It’s often romanticized as the ultimate way to travel, with images of free-spirited explorers hopping from one country to another with nothing…

Do You Really Need a Niche to Be a Blogger? My Honest Take!

Posted on June 6, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

If you’ve been following my blog for a while, you’ve probably noticed something; I don’t stick to just one topic. And you know what? I love it that way. My…

Can You Really Have Close Friendships With Your Exes?

Posted on June 4, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I used to be the type of person who stayed friends with most of my exes. Not because I was clinging to the past, but simply because I saw no…

What’s Wrong With Married People These Days?

Posted on June 3, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

"If I had a penny for every married man who showed interest in me, I'd be rich." Yup, you read that right. If I had no morals and didn’t care…

Adapting Yourself To Different People & Situations Is Not Being Fake

Posted on June 2, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

The other day, I was having coffee with a friend when she said something that really stuck with me: "I don’t treat people the same way. I treat them based…

Setting Boundaries at Work: Protecting Your Mental Well-Being

Posted on May 20, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Every day, we interact with a variety of people; colleagues, managers, clients, or even strangers at a café. While some interactions leave us feeling inspired and uplifted, others can be…

Speak Your Truth: How Sharing Your Story Can Make a Difference

Posted on May 8, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

There was a time when I kept my pain locked away in the pages of my journal. Every betrayal, every cruel word, every wound... I buried them deep, afraid of…

10 Relationship Mistakes Women Make (And How to Avoid Them!)

Posted on May 7, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Let’s be real: relationships can be incredibly rewarding but also incredibly challenging. As someone who has been through her fair share of relationship ups and downs, I’ve learned a lot.…

The Importance of Giving Closure: A Gift of Healing and Growth

Posted on April 18, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Closure often feels like an elusive concept, something we long for but don’t always get, no matter how much we wish for it. It’s difficult to accept, but if we…

30 Quirky Facts About Me You Didn’t Know (But Probably Should!)

Posted on April 14, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

We all have our little quirks; those unique things that make us who we are. Some are endearing, some are downright weird, and some make people question our life choices.…

15 Types of Toxic People You Should Avoid for a Happier Life

Posted on April 9, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Friendships are one of life’s greatest treasures, but not everyone we meet is meant to be part of our journey. Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of protecting my…

How Pain Pushed Me to Become My Best Self

Posted on April 7, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I must admit, I’ve avoided writing this kind of post for a while. It’s never easy to reopen old wounds, to look back at the moments that broke me, and…

I Tried a Vegan Diet for 7 Days; Here’s What Happened

Posted on April 7, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

As someone who has always been interested in healthy eating and sustainability, I’ve been curious about trying a vegan lifestyle. So, for the past seven days, I took the plunge…

How Self-Care and Self-Improvement Boost Confidence and Change My Life

Posted on April 3, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

"Nat, I'm so pretty!" I texted him with a giggle as I admired my reflection in the mirror. It was a random message, but I had this sudden burst of…

Why I Love Living a Simple Life: 5 Ways It Changed Me for the Better

Posted on March 26, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I've always been someone who appreciates the simple things in life, so it's no surprise that I prefer a simple lifestyle over chasing constant busyness or material possessions. To me,…

Cherish Loved Ones: Appreciate Those Who Truly Care Before It’s Too Late

Posted on March 21, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Two days ago, my brother’s father-in-law was in critical condition after a road accident. When the doctor told our family there was nothing more they could do, we clung to…

The Must-Have Life Disciplines: Simple Rules for a Better You

Posted on March 20, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Have you ever noticed how basic discipline seems to be fading away these days? With constant digital distractions and fewer boundaries in our daily lives, maintaining discipline has become increasingly…

7 Powerful Manipulation Tactics and How to Outsmart Them

Posted on March 18, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Ever had a conversation that left you doubting yourself? Or a friendship that constantly made you feel guilty, even when you did nothing wrong? Maybe you've dealt with someone who…

I Had 2,000 Tinder Matches and Here’s What I Learned

Posted on March 16, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I last used Tinder about two years ago, and I had over 2,000 matches. Yes, you read that correctly: 2,000! It's safe to say that I was pretty active on…

What I Learned This Week About Writing, Creativity, and Self-Doubt

Posted on March 12, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

This past week has been nothing short of insane. Being someone who likes to write, I’m always chasing inspiration. This time, it felt like I spent an unusually long stretch…

10 Hard Truths About Psychology and Life You Need to Know

Posted on March 11, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Life is a rollercoaster of experiences. Some lift us up, while others humble us in ways we never expected. The hardest lessons often shape us the most, influencing how we…

How I Deal with Frequent Nightmare Disorder and Sleep Paralysis

Posted on March 9, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Since childhood, I’ve suffered from nightmare disorder and sleep paralysis. It sounds wild, but at this point, I’ve gotten used to it... though there are still nights when I can’t…

How Writing Became My Therapy in Difficult Times

Posted on March 7, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

You know that feeling when your mind is overflowing with thoughts, but no words come out? When you want to talk, but it feels like no one would truly get…

I’ll Never Understand Why People Cheat and Honestly, I Don’t Want To

Posted on February 26, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Cheating scandals in Malaysia are popping up faster than new bubble tea shops. Every day, I wake up to yet another juicy headline: someone caught red-handed, another marriage down the…

My Fear of Weight Gain: How It’s Affecting My Life and Mental Health

Posted on February 24, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

I spent the majority of my life being skinny. As a teenager, my weight never exceeded 48 kg, and it stayed that way until my mid-20s. It felt like my…

Why I Refuse to Let People From My Past Back Into My Life

Posted on February 18, 2023May 21, 2026 by Auri Duham

Some people leave your life, and you never expect to hear from them again. But sometimes, out of nowhere, they do. A friend I once considered close in my early…

Masalah Kucing Kerap Batuk Berkahak Dan Nafas Berbunyi

Posted on February 5, 2023June 29, 2026 by Auri Duham

Penyebab kucing batuk adalah disebabkan beberapa perkara, antaranya adalah seperti allergi, hairball, asma yang kronik dan jangkitan bakteria. Macam kes kucing I, Jack, batuk dia sampai tahap bila dia bernafas,…

Why Does It Seem Like Life Is Always Unfair?

Posted on February 4, 2023May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

"Nat, do you ever feel like you deserve something, but life has been so unfair to you?" I asked, my spirit feeling heavy. "Sometimes," he admitted. "But I think, on…

I Replied To A Sugar Daddy Offer On Instagram and Here’s My Experience

Posted on January 28, 2023May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

I've never been the type to depend on others financially. By 15, I had already found ways to support myself, working as a waitress at catering events, including large functions…

Where the Crawdads Sing Movie: Why I Love It, Flaws and All

Posted on January 15, 2023May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

After getting back from golf practice today, I decided to unwind with a movie. Where the Crawdads Sing popped up on Netflix, and honestly, I only considered watching it because…

An Educational Week with Nat and the Beauty of Being Alone

Posted on January 8, 2023May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

Is it just me, or is 2023 moving way too fast? It feels like we just clinked glasses for New Year’s, and suddenly we're a week deep into January. Time…

When You Don’t Remember People, But They Remember You

Posted on December 25, 2022May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

I recently reactivated my Facebook account... not because I missed using it, but to check out what my mom had been posting for her birthday. Normally, my account stays deactivated…

I Write, Even When I Have No Idea What to Say

Posted on December 18, 2022May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

I’ve been lying in bed for the past hour, staring at my laptop screen, unsure of how to begin this post. I’ve typed, deleted, and retyped more times than I…

PMS Struggles: Mood Swings, Cravings, and Coping Mechanisms

Posted on December 17, 2022May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

I hate being a woman sometimes. Seriously, do you know how frustrating PMS (premenstrual syndrome) can be? It’s like an emotional rollercoaster that I never signed up for. I usually…

Girl Talk: Do Children Really Owe Their Parents? A Conversation Worth Having.

Posted on December 10, 2022May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

I recently met a friend for coffee. Oh, well! Someone finally got me out of my cave! 😅 She knows how much I dislike going out without a special reason,…

The Importance of Letting People Cope in Their Own Way

Posted on December 4, 2022May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

Yesterday, I came across an article about Janna Nick apologising for sharing posts related to her recent heartbreak. She also admitted that she isn’t mature enough. First of all, let…

3:00AM Writing With A Cup Of Salted Caramel Latte

Posted on November 27, 2022May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

“So… what have we actually achieved this year?” That’s the question I tossed at my close friend at work. The moment it slipped out, we both burst into laughter... because…

My Brain,Taking A Break And Pursuing What I Want

Posted on November 24, 2022June 4, 2026 by Auri Duham

You know that feeling when your brain has way too many tabs open? Thoughts racing, ideas bouncing around, and a never-ending to-do list staring back at you? Yeah, that’s me…

Why I Love Being In My 30s More Than My 20s

Posted on November 19, 2022June 4, 2026 by Auri Duham

Like many people, I used to quietly dread turning 30. In my late 20s, it felt like some mysterious portal would open on my birthday, pulling me into a world…

Writing Is Hard: Here’s Why and What You Can Do About It

Posted on November 18, 2022May 22, 2026 by Auri Duham

I've always had an interest in writing. Before I created my first blog in 2013 and became more serious about it in 2016, I used to pour my thoughts, feelings,…

Snow On The Beach, Feelings And All That Matters

Posted on November 7, 2022June 5, 2026 by Auri Duham

I’ve been obsessed with Snow on the Beach by Taylor Swift. It’s been the soundtrack to my days lately... even now, it’s playing softly as I write this. It’s one…

Why Being an Empath Feels Like a Superpower, And a Curse

Posted on November 6, 2022June 5, 2026 by Auri Duham

I just finished binge-watching Manifest Season 4 Part I on Netflix, and wow... my tear ducts are officially out of business. I ugly-cried like it was my full-time job when…

Happy, Free, Confused And Annoyed At The Same Time.

Posted on October 29, 2022June 5, 2026 by Auri Duham

My big brother has been on my case lately. "Go out, meet some guys, pick a hot one for yourself!" he says... like I can just walk into a store…

Tips & Panduan Penjagaan Kucing Untuk Beginners

Posted on October 24, 2022June 29, 2026 by Auri Duham

I dah bela kucing I, Jack, lebih dari 9 tahun. Kalau orang tanya, I akan cakap dia bukan sekadar kucing; dia macam anak I sendiri. Manjanya dia dengan I sampai…

Why You Should Never Regret Dating Someone Who Broke Your Heart

Posted on October 22, 2022June 5, 2026 by Auri Duham

We all have regrets. Maybe it’s a person we wish we had never met, a path we wish we had never taken, or a mistake we wish we could undo.…

Dating Advice On The Internet I’ll Never Follow

Posted on October 10, 2022June 5, 2026 by Auri Duham

I remember the first time someone told me, "Don’t text him first; make him chase you." I nodded politely, but inside, I was thinking, "Why would I want to play…

Have You Ever Felt Like You Have No One To Talk To?

Posted on October 9, 2022June 5, 2026 by Auri Duham

Have you ever sat alone in your room, scrolling through your phone, and suddenly realised you don’t actually have anyone you feel comfortable talking to? Not about the deep stuff.…

Coping with Rejection: When Someone You Like Doesn’t Feel the Same

Posted on October 5, 2022June 5, 2026 by Auri Duham

Rejection hurts. It always does, and usually more than we expect. There’s no escaping that sting: the disappointment, the bruised ego, the creeping doubts about self-worth. It’s a universal experience,…

How I Make the Most of My Free Time at Home

Posted on September 18, 2022June 5, 2026 by Auri Duham

If you're someone who loves spending time at home or you're still trying to find joy in solitude, this post is for you. I’ve always been a home person, not…

Things I Have Stopped Doing To Create A Better, More Peaceful Life

Posted on September 4, 2022February 1, 2025 by Auri Duham

My friends and family have always described me as someone with a tough and firm personality. However, I wasn’t always like this. It took years of experience, self-reflection, and conscious…

The Reasons Why I’ll Always Value My Online Friends

Posted on September 1, 2022June 8, 2026 by Auri Duham

Since COVID-19, my circle of online friends has grown wider. For someone like me, who struggles with social anxiety, having online friends is a blessing. It lets me connect with…

How My Perspectives On Dating Have Changed Throughout The Years

Posted on August 25, 2022June 8, 2026 by Auri Duham

I’ve always imagined being in a committed relationship, sharing my life with someone who would love me as much as I loved him. The idea of building a future together…

How I Found My Way Back When I Felt Lost and Purposeless

Posted on August 14, 2022June 8, 2026 by Auri Duham

For the past 3 months, I went through a phase where every day felt heavy and uninspired. Throughout that period, I kept everyone at arm's length, avoided conversations, and spent…

How You Can Start A Self Love Journey

Posted on August 5, 2022June 8, 2026 by Auri Duham

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but self-love is a crucial part of good mental health. I chose this topic because many people struggle with self-love, including a…

Why I’m Keeping My Life As Private As Possible

Posted on August 3, 2022June 8, 2026 by Auri Duham

I’ve never been a naturally private person. I used to be one of those people who shared almost everything with anyone willing to listen... or worse, with the entire internet.…

Why You Should Always Pursue Your Dreams.

Posted on July 29, 2022June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

“What is not started today is never finished tomorrow.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Dreams. We all have them. I’m not talking about the ones we get when we sleep.…

My Experience Fighting COVID-19

Posted on April 24, 2022June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

I got COVID-19 in February when the Omicron wave hit Malaysia. At the time, I was fully vaccinated with Sinovac and had received my booster shot (Pfizer). While vaccination doesn’t…

Cara Jaga Kucing Patah Tulang Kaki Dan Pinggul

Posted on July 28, 2021June 29, 2026 by Auri Duham

Kucing I, Jack, baru je fully recovered dari patah tulang kaki dan pinggul. I sendiri pun actually tak tahu macam mana tulang dia boleh patah. Sebelum I pergi kerja dia…

Situationship: The Undefined Relationship “What Are We?”

Posted on July 25, 2021June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

Have you ever found yourself in the dreaded situationship zone? You know, that strange limbo where you're more than friends but not quite lovers, with no real commitment in sight?…

Why Letting Go of Toxic Friendships Is Self-Care

Posted on July 23, 2021June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that not every friendship is meant to last forever, and that’s okay. Life has a way of showing me that it’s better…

Masalah Kucing Alergi Dengan Ikan

Posted on March 4, 2021June 29, 2026 by Auri Duham

Ha, pelik kan? Macam mana kucing boleh alergi dengan ikan? Bukan ikan ni memang makanan kesukaan kucing ke? Okay, haiwan ni macam manusia juga. Ada alergi. I tahu pun sebab…

Don’t Be Ashamed to Speak Broken English

Posted on February 21, 2021June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

I felt compelled to write about this topic after reading about a radio DJ who mocked a teacher for teaching in English on an educational television program. As I was…

Penjagaan Kucing: Barang-Barang Keperluan Untuk Kesihatan Kucing

Posted on February 7, 2021June 29, 2026 by Auri Duham

Kucing I, Jack, I dah bela dari umur dia 4 bulan lagi. Pejam celik, sekejap je umur dah 8 tahun. Jack ni kucing indoor. Memang dari kecil I bela di…

How I Deal With Sadness And Be Happy Instead

Posted on February 6, 2021June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

Sadness is something we all face. It's one of the most basic human emotions and a natural response to situations that are upsetting, painful, or disappointing. Sometimes, sadness lingers, resurfacing…

How to Move On After Being Ghosted (Without Losing Your Mind)

Posted on January 2, 2021June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

Have you ever been in this situation? You meet someone new. Things are going great. You’re texting every day, sharing laughs, and maybe even have gone on a few dates.…

How I Decorated My Brother’s Wedding Dinner on a Budget

Posted on January 1, 2021June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

In March 2020, my brother’s wedding plans were put on hold when the COVID-19 pandemic hit. With rising cases and government restrictions, the celebration we had all been looking forward…

My Advice for a Woman in a Relationship with a Married Man

Posted on August 12, 2020June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

Today, I decided to revisit the topic of being in a relationship with a married man. Four years ago, I shared my personal experience on this matter. You can read…

IP Cctv Untuk Monitor Kucing Di Rumah

Posted on August 11, 2020June 29, 2026 by Auri Duham

Recently i ada Installed Ip cctv di rumah. The main reason i installed cctv adalah untuk monitor kucing i setiap kali i berada di luar. Kucing i ni memang dibesarkan…

Things Every Modern Woman Should Know

Posted on August 7, 2020June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

1. Know How to Drive. It’s important to learn how to drive. Once you’ve reached enough age to drive, go ahead and get your driving license. Having a license means…

What Heartbreak Taught Me About Loving Myself

Posted on July 19, 2020June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

I used to believe that love was about giving everything to someone else: your time, your energy, your whole heart. But what happens when you give so much that there’s…

Dealing With People Who Are Unkind To You And How To Let It Go

Posted on June 6, 2020June 10, 2026 by Auri Duham

Unkindness. At some point in our lives, we've all experienced it. A harsh comment. A thoughtless action. A moment that leaves us questioning ourselves and wondering why someone chose to…

My Biggest Lesson Of 2019: Never Betray Yourself For Someone You Love

Posted on November 28, 2019November 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

As a woman, I feel deeply called to write this post—not for sympathy, but to help other women recognize the importance of self-worth. What I’m about to share is deeply…

A Mind Blowing Moments Of 3 Years Writing.

Posted on November 28, 2019December 11, 2025 by Auri Duham

I can't believe that I started Wanderhoney 3 years ago. Wow! how time flies. Who would have thought that my blog could help many people; even got my own fan!…

Why I Removed Facebook from My Life

Posted on September 4, 2017June 13, 2025 by Auri Duham

I used to be like every other Gen Y person, living life through social media. Every day, I would scroll endlessly through my news feed, whether I was at home…

Constantly Having Nightmares? You Can Try These Tips

Posted on August 23, 2017June 13, 2025 by Auri Duham

Having nightmares as an adult is normal. What becomes unusual is when you experience nightmares almost every day. If you fall into this "unusual" group, don’t worry—you’re not alone. In…

Risiko Bercinta Dengan Non-Malay Atau Non-Muslim

Posted on June 29, 2017July 11, 2025 by Auri Duham

Topik hari ini sangat personal dan dekat di hati I. Ini adalah berdasarkan pengalaman hidup I sendiri selama bertahun-tahun. Sejujurnya, I memang lebih tertarik dengan Non-Malay which dating history I…

Meeting New People Online? Here’s How to Stay Safe and Have Fun

Posted on June 16, 2017July 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

Let’s be real, meeting someone online is no longer a novelty. It’s the norm. Whether it’s for friendship, dating, or even networking, chances are your next interesting connection might just…

Creative Budget Doorgift: Candy in Cupcake Cups

Posted on February 4, 2017December 11, 2025 by Auri Duham

Wedding celebrations and doorgifts are pretty much inseparable these days. It has become a trend—every wedding seems to come with its own creative little gifts for the guests. The best…

Pengalaman Bercinta Dengan Suami Orang

Posted on December 31, 2016June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

Disebabkan sebelum ni i pernah terjebak dengan "suami orang", i nak share sikit mengenai pengalaman i ni. Bukan apa, sebab i tahu ramai lagi wanita di luar sana yang masih…

10 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship

Posted on December 21, 2016December 27, 2024 by Auri Duham

Relationships have the power to shape our happiness, confidence, and sense of self. At their best, they’re a source of love, comfort, and growth. At their worst, they can leave…

15 Honest Truths About Long Distance Relationships (That No One Tells You)

Posted on October 4, 2016June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

Long-distance relationships (LDRs) aren't just a romantic idea you see in movies—they're very real, often challenging, and surprisingly common these days. Whether your partner lives in another city, country, or…

Break Free: Ways To Live Life To The Fullest

Posted on July 13, 2016December 13, 2024 by Auri Duham

"Man sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. He becomes so anxious about the future that he fails to enjoy the…

Here’s My Advice To Those In Their 20s

Posted on June 25, 2016December 11, 2025 by Auri Duham

Birthdays are a mix of celebration and reflection for me. Every year, as the number on the calendar ticks upward, it feels like another chapter of life unfolds. When it…

50 Classy Rules Every Confident Woman Should Know

Posted on June 16, 2016December 3, 2025 by Auri Duham

Let’s be real: being a woman in today’s world? It’s a beautifully chaotic ride. We’re expected to be soft but strong, beautiful but humble, and independent—but not too much. All…

Dating a Highly Sensitive Person? Here’s What You Really Need to Know

Posted on June 1, 2016June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

Let’s be honest—dating someone who’s highly sensitive is not like dating just anyone. It’s not just about “being emotional” or “overthinking stuff.” It’s about navigating a world that feels just…

What It Feels Like To Be An Introvert

Posted on May 27, 2016June 14, 2025 by Auri Duham

I’ve always loved my little world. A quiet, sacred space where I don’t have to explain myself. A space where I feel most alive—whether I'm reading, writing, overthinking, or simply…

What My First Solo Trip Has Taught Me

Posted on May 26, 2016December 11, 2025 by Auri Duham

At 28, I decided to embark on my first solo journey. It wasn’t something I had planned for years or a lifelong dream. It came from a simple realization: after…

20 Real-Life Lessons I Learned From My Past Relationships

Posted on March 18, 2016June 20, 2025 by Auri Duham

I’ve always felt like one of those people who just doesn’t have the best luck in love. You know how it goes—everything starts off beautifully. The butterflies. The late-night calls.…

Masalah Kucing Tak Boleh Kencing

Posted on March 4, 2016June 29, 2026 by Auri Duham

Sebelum i nak share mengenai masalah kencing yang kucing i pernah alami ni, i nak intro sikit. I mula bela kucing i ni dari tahun 2013. I namakan dia Jack.…

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