Today, I want to talk about something that so many of us struggle with: self-care guilt. Picture this: You, finally getting a quiet moment to yourself. A warm cup of…
The other day, while aimlessly browsing the internet, I stumbled upon reviews of Netflix’s latest reality series, With Love, Meghan. To say it received mixed reactions would be an understatement—let’s…
We all make mistakes. You say something you shouldn’t have. Hit snooze too many times and end up rushing through your morning. Keep a part of your past from your…
Let’s be real—life isn’t a movie with a dramatic soundtrack playing in the background. No one’s cueing the perfect song while you stare out the window, lost in thought. But…
I was talking to a friend recently about her breakup, and as she shared her story, her voice cracked under the weight of her pain. It broke my heart. I…
Ah, your 20s—the decade of impulsive decisions, cringe-worthy fashion trends, and the illusion that you have life all figured out. (Spoiler: you don’t.) It’s an era of trial and error,…
Life is full of choices, though not all of them seem important at first. Yet, it’s often a single decision that sets the course for major change, leading to growth,…
Part 1: Career and Personal Growth Happy New Year, Wanderhaners! Okay, I totally just made that word up! 😂 I thought giving my readers a special name would be fun.…
It’s raining outside—my all-time favourite weather. There’s something about the sound of rain that makes everything feel softer and slower, as if life itself is gently telling me to pause.…
After getting back from work yesterday and relaxing on my sofa, I scrolled through Netflix to see what was new. Typically, I’d just scroll and end up not watching anything,…
Happy, but not happier. This is the phrase that keeps floating in my mind when people ask, "How are you feeling?" Yet my answer is always, "I’m okay." I can’t…
Urgh, I hate getting older, but I think it's time to embrace it—embrace the changes. I like to think that I'm forever 27, clinging to that age like it's frozen…
I remember the first time I heard about the team-building programme; I refused to go. I'm not a big fan of spending my weekends with other people, especially when it's…
As I recently scrolled through my external hard drive to delete some old photos, I found myself swept up in a wave of nostalgia. Seeing the photos of myself smiling,…
Hello, it's been a while... again..Haha. Honestly, I'm sitting here not knowing what to write, but I'll just let my brain and fingers do their thing today. I do feel…
Hello there! 😃 It's been a while, hasn't it? Well, frankly speaking, I've been pretty tied up these past few months. Life has taken quite a turn, and I've found…
Have you ever found yourself in situations where you wished someone's manners were just... better? We've all been there! Politeness and good manners are like the glue that holds our…
Life has a unique way of teaching us lessons, often through moments of pain and heartache. These experiences shape who we become and for me, they’ve created a cautiousness with…
As someone who loves to travel, I find that the connections I make with the locals I encounter along the way often make my trips truly special. Their warm welcomes,…
If you’ve been following my blog for a while, you’ve probably noticed something—I don’t stick to just one topic. And you know what? I love it that way. My blog…
The other day, I was having coffee with a friend when she said something that really stuck with me: "I don’t treat people the same way. I treat them based…
Every day, we interact with a variety of people—colleagues, managers, clients, or even strangers at a café. While some interactions leave us feeling inspired and uplifted, others can be frustrating…
There was a time when I kept my pain locked away in the pages of my journal. Every betrayal, every cruel word, every wound—I buried them deep, afraid of what…
Closure often feels like an elusive concept, something we long for but don’t always get, no matter how much we wish for it. It’s difficult to accept, but if we…
We all have our little quirks—those unique things that make us who we are. Some are endearing, some are downright weird, and some make people question our life choices. But…
Friendships are one of life’s greatest treasures, but not everyone we meet is meant to be part of our journey. Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of protecting my…
I must admit, I’ve avoided writing this kind of post for a while. It’s never easy to reopen old wounds, to look back at the moments that broke me, and…
As someone who has always been interested in healthy eating and sustainability, I’ve been curious about trying a vegan lifestyle. So, for the past seven days, I took the plunge…
I've always been someone who appreciates the simple things in life, so it's no surprise that I prefer a simple lifestyle over chasing constant busyness or material possessions. To me,…
Two days ago, my brother’s father-in-law was in critical condition after a road accident. When the doctor told our family there was nothing more they could do, we clung to…
Have you ever noticed how basic discipline seems to be fading away these days? With constant digital distractions and fewer boundaries in our daily lives, maintaining discipline has become increasingly…
Ever had a conversation that left you doubting yourself? Or a friendship that constantly made you feel guilty, even when you did nothing wrong? Maybe you've dealt with someone who…
This past week has been nothing short of insane. Being someone who likes to write, I’m always chasing inspiration. This time, it felt like I spent an unusually long stretch…
Life is a rollercoaster of experiences—some lift us up, while others humble us in ways we never expected. The hardest lessons often shape us the most, influencing how we see…
Since childhood, I’ve suffered from nightmare disorder and sleep paralysis. It sounds wild, but at this point, I’ve gotten used to it—though there are still nights when I can’t bring…
You know that feeling when your mind is overflowing with thoughts, but no words come out? When you want to talk, but it feels like no one would truly get…
Cheating scandals in Malaysia are popping up faster than new bubble tea shops. Every day, I wake up to yet another juicy headline—someone caught red-handed, another marriage down the drain.…
Some people leave your life, and you never expect to hear from them again. But sometimes, out of nowhere, they do. A friend I once considered close in my early…
"Nat, do you ever feel like you deserve something, but life has been so unfair to you?" I asked, my spirit feeling heavy. "Sometimes," he admitted. "But I think, on…
I've never been the type to depend on others financially. By 15, I had already found ways to support myself, working as a waitress at catering events, including large functions…
Lately, I've been throwing this phrase around like confetti: "I hope you're happy, but don’t be happier." If Nat had a dollar for every time I said it, he could…
After getting back from golf practice today, I decided to unwind with a movie. Where the Crawdads Sing popped up on Netflix, and honestly, I only considered watching it because…
I recently reactivated my Facebook account—not because I missed using it, but to check out what my mom had been posting for her birthday. Normally, my account stays deactivated because,…
I’ve been lying in bed for the past hour, staring at my laptop screen, unsure of how to begin this post. I’ve typed, deleted, and retyped more times than I…
I hate being a woman sometimes. Seriously, do you know how frustrating PMS (premenstrual syndrome) can be? It’s like an emotional rollercoaster that I never signed up for. I usually…
I recently met a friend for coffee. Oh, well! Someone finally got me out of my cave! 😅 She knows how much I dislike going out without a special reason,…
Yesterday, I came across an article about Janna Nick apologising for sharing posts related to her recent heartbreak. She also admitted that she isn’t mature enough. First of all, let…
Lately, I feel like my brain is messing with me. Do you ever notice when your best ideas come to you? For me, it’s always while I’m driving! And that’s…
"What have we achieved this year?" I asked my close friend at work, and as soon as those words left my mouth, we burst into laughter because we already knew…
You know that feeling when your brain has way too many tabs open? Thoughts racing, ideas bouncing around, and a never-ending to-do list staring back at you? Yeah, that’s me…
Like everyone else, I slightly dreaded turning 30 when I was in my late 20s. It felt like stepping into some mysterious void where I would no longer be "young,"…
I've always had an interest in writing. Before I created my first blog in 2013 and became more serious about it in 2016, I used to pour my thoughts, feelings,…
I just finished binge-watching Manifest Season 4 Part I on Netflix, and wow—my tear ducts are officially out of business. I ugly-cried like it was my full-time job when Zeke…
Nowadays, dating advice is everywhere. It’s all over the internet—you can find it on TikTok, IG Reels, YouTube, or just by Googling it, and bam! A flood of advice appears.…
Rejection hurts. It always does, and usually more than we expect. There’s no escaping that sting—the disappointment, the bruised ego, the creeping doubts about self-worth. It’s a universal experience, something…
As an introvert, I've spent a lot of time by myself at home. That’s what I’ve always preferred (and needed). People who don’t know me well often assume otherwise, saying…
My friends and family have always described me as someone with a tough and firm personality. However, I wasn’t always like this. It took years of experience, self-reflection, and conscious…
Since COVID-19, my circle of online friends has grown wider. For someone like me, who struggles with social anxiety, having online friends is a blessing. It lets me connect with…
For the past 3 months, I went through a phase where every day felt heavy and uninspired. Throughout that period, I kept everyone at arm's length, avoided conversations, and spent…
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but self-love is a crucial part of good mental health. I chose this topic because many people struggle with self-love—including a dear…
I’ve never been a naturally private person. I used to be one of those people who shared almost everything with anyone willing to listen—or worse, with the entire internet. Whether…
“What is not started today is never finished tomorrow.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Dreams. We all have them. I’m not talking about the ones we get when we sleep.…
I got COVID-19 in February when the Omicron wave hit Malaysia. At the time, I was fully vaccinated with Sinovac and had received my booster shot (Pfizer). While vaccination doesn’t…
As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that not every friendship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay. Life has a way of showing me that it’s better to…
I tergerak untuk tulis about this topic after I terbaca mengenai seorang DJ radio mempersendakan seorang guru yang mengajar di dalam bahasa Inggeris di salah satu program tv pendidikan. Actually,…
Sadness is something we all face. It's one of the most basic human emotions and a natural response to situations that are upsetting, painful, or disappointing. Sometimes, sadness lingers, resurfacing…
In March 2020, my brother’s wedding plans were put on hold when the COVID-19 pandemic hit. With rising cases and government restrictions, the celebration we had all been looking forward…
1. Know How to Drive. It’s important to learn how to drive. Once you’ve reached enough age to drive, go ahead and get your driving license. Having a license means…
Unkindness. We’ve all felt it—the sting of words or actions that leave us asking, Why me? In those moments, it’s tempting to react—to defend ourselves or to make them feel…
I can't believe that I started Wanderhoney 3 years ago. Wow! how time flies. Who would have thought that my blog could help many people; even got my own fan!…
I used to be like every other Gen Y person, living life through social media. Every day, I would scroll endlessly through my news feed, whether I was at home…
Having nightmares as an adult is normal. What becomes unusual is when you experience nightmares almost every day. If you fall into this "unusual" group, don’t worry—you’re not alone. In…
"Man sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. He becomes so anxious about the future that he fails to enjoy the…
Birthdays are a mix of celebration and reflection for me. Every year, as the number on the calendar ticks upward, it feels like another chapter of life unfolds. When it…
I still remember when I first started working in Putrajaya; life was incredibly tough. Meals were irregular—sometimes, I’d only eat once a day. On lucky days, I could afford rice.…
I love my little world. I get tired just from too much time with people. I feel frustrated when I explain to someone that I need alone time and they responds,…
At 28, I decided to embark on my first solo journey. It wasn’t something I had planned for years or a lifelong dream. It came from a simple realization: after…
